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I'm still living and legally married to my x. (Separated only a few days. No we are not getting back together)He has been getting credit cards here recently with high credit lines, should I hurry to ge a divorce? These cards aren't in my name but we are legally married so technically will his...

Hi, i have been married to my husband for ten years, no kids, equal incomes, and we split all costs and bills 50/50 and separate bank accounts. But he cant stop spending on his credit cards and is always in debt, before i met him he was declared bankrupt and had to sell his home. I know that...

Edited/Deleted: I'm not interested in being a member anymore. I'll seek help with professionals. I urge others to do the same.

I apologize in advance, this is kind of all over the place. I don't know what I'm asking really. We've been married for six years. 2.5 years ago I started having mental problems. Severe depression and anxiety. We determined it was work related (with the help of a psychiatrist. We...

Writing this is difficult, but perhaps here your support will help achieve some clarity. We met 16 years ago, bought a flat in 2003, got married in 2004 and our daughter was born in 2006. DW was always emotionally and financially dependent on me. I, with very little relationship experience at...

Today, financial disputes are one of the most popular reasons listed as a cause for divorce. One or both persons in these marriages often say their partner betrayed their trust or was misleading about financial issues. For some, their former spouse hide debt problems from them, while others were...

I really apologize for the length of this, but I have a lot to say. My wife and I have been married for 6 months, and we'd been together nearly 4.5 years before we tied the knot. Last week, we had a major fight regarding money and finances that nearly destroyed everything and almost resulted in...

In 2011, President Obama declared the month of April to be "National Financial Literacy Month". He did this because he understands that the American Dream is being lost due to debt problems. (This does not mean I believe he or congress is doing a good job managing the national budget...

I recently met with a financial advisor who advised me that if I want to be independent I should leave my home. I have been married for 24 years and have two grown children. My husband has been lying about our finances the whole time, has gotten us into serious debt, has had his family bail...

10. Going to the gym for the first time in 3 months without stretching. 09. Locking myself outside of the house for a second time in 2 months. 08. Driving to Delaware for a meeting that was canceled (Also going to work on my day off). 07. Traveling to Puerto Rico without brushing up on my...

The "fiscal cliff" is directly in front of our faces and going over it will result in some people experiencing financial problems for the first time. Personally, I feel bad for these people because they are not accustom to living paycheck to paycheck. They haven't had to worry about keeping the...

Many people believe financial planning comes down to making sure their net income exceeds their total expenses. This mentality often leads to the same outcome of most diet plans; failure. Where did they go wrong? Most forgot to account for their money personality. If you find yourself to be one...

Where to begin...it's such a long story, and I feel like leaving any tiny bit out is not properly representing the situation. But, because I actually want help and not to put people to sleep, let me try and put together a shortened version of events. My wife and I have been together for 12...

I am here because I don't know where else to turn. I will go over our story as brief but clearly as I can. My husband and I are about $30,000 in debt, give or take. (Plus the mortgage, of course.) I am a mother to four going on five children. (I didn't plan on having another, I tried hard...

I buy stuff. My husband doesn't pay attention to anything. Not the finances, not the house, not me. It makes me happy for a short time to buy a new dress, or new shoes, or to paint the kitchen, or buy a dining room buffet, or spend $600 at the greenhouse to plant a new garden. I had a decent...

Here it goes. And guys I need an honest answer. Don't just say yes or no. Elaborate for me if you can. My wife and me met in college in 2002. I am from Pakistan originally and she is from Ecuador. Both living in New York. We met in college got close started dating. Later on I used to go to her...