Ok so I am in a struggling marriage, and had cyber cheated months ago, cyber only no actual contact. My H had no idea but his attitude did not get any better or worse during this time at all either way. He is the way he is... Which is why we in the position we are in. I deleted all contact...

Ok so I am in a much less than lovely long term marriage that I had no intention of leaving, still wobbling on that one but it is getting much worse because of his behavior. My cyber cheating has stopped because of fear on both of our parts, only to add to my depression because I really care...