I am kinda new here, and I don't really know any of you and that makes me kinda nervous. But after reading things in this forum, it appears that you can talk about just about anything. So here goes. My H and I have had a very boring sex life for a very long time. Let me give you a little...

I wish I knew where to start, I am 45 years old and just admitted to being sexually abused from the age of 10 until 24 by a close family friend that lived next door then became my "guardian" after my parents divorced. My mother became an extreme alcoholic around the time we met our neighbor, I...