Hello everyone, I need some advice/perspective. I wasn't sure which forum to put this on, so if it needs to be moved that's fine. I have known this coworker for a little over a year. He is 50 and I am 31 and we work in different departments but often have to work together. He is good friends...

Hello everyone! I am new here, I've been reading for weeks but today I decided to join. Here is "my thing" I've been married for almost 13 years to a very quiet and reserved man, he loves me and he is a good father to our 2 kids (7 and 4), he used to work part-time and now he has a full time job...

I've been going through this for 3 weeks now. My husband has been having an emotional affair that has lead to hickies on her neck. But it all started with them being friends and riding into work together, 3rd shift factory work. And now they have a "special connection he and I never had". I know...

August 2014, my wife told me this recent ex-coworker had called her and asked her out to a "late lunch" around 2pm so they could have drinks after eating (off the clock at 3pm). I asked her, "Alone?" and she said yes. I told her I was uncomfortable with her going drinking with another guy alone...

i just joined this forum a little over an hour ago. I am lost and my body feels numb. Here is my situation: I have been with my girlfriend for over 5 years now. We have a daughter aged 3 about to turn 4 at the end of this month. She also had two boys from a previous relationship. Their father is...

I have been with my wife for 14 years we have 2 daughters 3 and 7. She started having an affair with a coworker in December. He is also married with 2 kids. They had been spending a lot of time together at lunch since September. As soon as the affair began neither one of them did very much to...

My wife and I are going to be married for 10 years in a couple days. We were married very young. I was 19, and she was 20. We have had a great marriage; never any major issues. We had fights here and there, but mostly just about me going out with guy friends too much. My wife has only ever...

I've been married 8 years and have 3 children. We are seriously considering separation/divorce for a number of reasons: lack of intimacy & communication, drinking, and anger issues. We've been at it since November 2010. Here's the latest development: my husband has become good friends with...

Need perspective please. Married about 15 yrs. 2nd marriage for both. Dated for about 3 yrs before. Found out yesterday of a "relationship" that DH had with a lady we both worked with, who is now a neighbor of ours. This relationship occured before we started dating. However, I have not cared...

Hello -- a newbie here with a concerning question. I'm a 30 y.o. M, married. I've been friends with a F coworker for four years. She is late-40's, married with kids. Over the past year, we have grown close, exchanging emails and texts frequently. She's quite attractive, but I would never ever...