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  1. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    After weeks of pleading for the H to return our marriage certificate, I have at last lodged a sole divorce application. Because we have children under the age of 18 I have to attend court but I don't mind this so much. The day I went to court to lodge it and pay the fee it felt like my heart...
  2. Coping with Infidelity
    An hour after we left the courthouse after our divorce hearing this past Tuesday, I stupidly texted my STBXW that I still love her. I knew it was a mistake as soon as I sent it, but of course I can't un-do it. I had been doing so well with NC, I was stoic during the hearing, and then got...
  3. Life After Divorce
    It was a sad day. Lots of crying on my STBXW's part. It does feel like death, definitely. I am so angry at her for unilaterally ripping our family apart. This entire episode culminating in divorce has completely soured me on a future serious relationship. Everyone says that time will change...
  4. Coping with Infidelity
    Getting close, no discernible change in her attitude. Looks like she's going to hang in there with the AP. They're in debt up to their eyeballs and she's still spending wildly according to my daughter. I've stuck to the 180, working on myself, taking my meds lol, and looking forward...
  5. General Relationship Discussion
    I have known this woman for over 10 years. We drank together and occasionally slept together. Then eventually she moved in with me. She lived a good distance from me so her moving in was OK. We drank together and partied, had a lot of the same friends, and she introduced me to a lot of people...
  6. The Family & Parenting Forums
    Hi folks! Second marriage, a great marriage, in fact, but one of the wife's kids doesn't like me - and he vandalizes my property. I do not hate my wife's boys. They are both smart, and have great potential. I started off fine with the boys, and even have some interests in common. As this...
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