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  1. workaholic wife blues

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife is traveling this week (and does so frequently) and warned ahead of time she'd be hard pressed to call or email. The warning wasn't really needed as it is her usual behavior. So, I guess I shouldn't be hurt that that is the case. But, I am. With this last trip, her travel included...
  2. Caught her cheating - devastated

    Coping with Infidelity
    Married 11 years - 2 boys of 4 and 7. 8 months ago, after many months of premonition, found texts between my wife and a friend of ours. They were deep and intimate, She denied for the last 8 months despite the evidence. When I travelled I found her in a state of a 16-year-old in love. I knew...
  3. Panic, Anger, Hurt and Hope

    Hello. I need to share my story. I am on day nine since my husband said he doesn't want to live with me anymore. This comes on the tail of lots and lots of conflict (and we were separated three years ago for five months - we know our relationship needs work) but I have always insisted that I...
  4. Read these books

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am not supporting infeldelity, but these books really provide another perspective. Very worthwhile reading by both the husband and wife, then openly discuss each book. Sex at Dawn Women's Infeldelity Sperm Wars
  5. I'm ready to move on, but I can't. Please Help!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone and thank you for your replies they are much needed or else I wouldn't be here writing this now... I am 24 years old and married. I decided to leave my husband last October 2011. It is now almost August 2012 and I still haven't proceeded with our divorce. The decision to get...
  6. Developing Detachment / Letting Go

    Coping with Infidelity
    I just want to share with you guys this very nice article from I know this will help! DEVELOPING DETACHMENT By Jake Lawson What is detachment? Detachment is the: * Ability to allow people, places or things the freedom to be themselves. * Holding back from the need to rescue...
  7. How to cope with a sexless marriage?

    Sex in Marriage
    I will start off by asking that those with helpful ideas on how to get my spouse to have sex, or tell me to get a divorce kindly not comment. I will not leave my family. It is obvious that there are many people, men and women, in my shoes. Iam married to a caring wife and a good mother who...
  8. when does the pain go away?

    Coping with Infidelity
    my husband was cyber cheating on me, as well as having phone sex with woman on chatlines, im wondering when will i feel better? when will i trust again? when does the pain stop ????? when will there be a day where i dont look @ him & feel anger inside me? when will i feel like the way things...
  9. I cannot take any more of these rumors!

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello everyone I am new to forums in general so I will try to be quick and to the point. A little background to my dilemma, My wife and I have been married for almost 3 years now and we have been friends for almost ten. Back in high school we dated for about 2 weeks but it was too awkward and...
  10. I just want to escape!

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    I feel like I want to run far, far away and hide at the same time that I want to have a monstrous primal scream!! My junior in college daughter is from my abusive first marriage. I've been married to my second husband for over 13 years. He has raised her since she was 6. He's a very strong...