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  1. A little about myself

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello. I have come to this forum to get relationship advice. My husband and I have been married for 14.5 years and we have just started marriage counseling about 2 months ago. There has been infidelity and a lot of lies, but I am trying to work on forgiving and moving forward. I am struggling...
  2. Our 5 year anniversary is this Friday..

    Coping with Infidelity
    and it's been a little over a month since I found out that my husband had been cheating on me with the downstairs neighbor for almost two years. Feb. 12 to be exact, three days after I found out that my father had passed away cold and alone. One month after suffering the loss of my younger...
  3. Desperately trying to ruin my husband's affair trip now

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am now desperately trying to find a way to ruin my husband's affair trip going on right this moment. We are married for almost 25 years. He is now with this woman that he did not even know the last name. He bought airline ticket for her vacation in CA and joined her from east coast for her...
  4. How To can you cope with cheating?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Coping with cheating is so hard, it's really one of major reasons marriages end, but before they end how can you get to the root of the problem and figure out why cheating occers in a relationship? Is it because the attraction isn't there anymore, is it because of the kinds, bordom, how can you...
  5. Setback on Valentine's Day

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    Days before Christmas, I found out that my husband had been cheating on me- again! Same girl as before, but difference is we now have a son. turns out he was cheating onme the entire time I was preganant and all the way up until I caught him (just before xmas). I came on to this site, it has...
  6. New here, need to unload

    Coping with Infidelity
    I found out that my husband had been cheating on me 3 years ago. I found out because my daughter found emails on his computer. She told my other daughter and they came to me devastated. I've tried to shield them as much as possible since then. Over the past 3 years, I found out that he had...
  7. what do I do now?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I posted last month and didn't think I would be back on this site at all posting again. My H had a 5 month or so EA that I found out about on 6-13 dday (actually dnight as I found out at 11pm). Anyhow we have decided to work things out and most of the time everything is fine - for him....for...
  8. No clue where to go from here.

    Coping with Infidelity
    I'm new to all of this and am only here for serious advice. I am 26 and have been married to my wife for a little over 2 years. The issues all started right after getting married. We got married In June after 2 months of dating. She spent a month with me at my new house and flew back home...
  9. A Year Later and Still in Pain......

    Coping with Infidelity
    I came to this website a few months ago searching for any information I could find to help me try to understand why my husband had his affair. I feel that my husband has always had some self-esteem issues. Couple that with being passed over at work for many years because of favoritism...
  10. I'm a mess!

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband had a 3 week emotional affair with both of our co-worker. Although short it was really intense. She asked him to leave me after two times of hanging out. I still cry? My therapist says everytime I obsess I am traumatizing myself over and over. He has been really supportive throughout...
  11. husbands midlife crisis causing flirting w/other girls, how can i be enough for him?

    Coping with Infidelity
    i am pretty sure my husband is going through a midlife crisis, he had one emotional affair in december that we have worked out but now theres been flirting with other girls that are his friends. i have been checking his facebook since the emotional affair and ended up finding other things. it...
  12. Husband had an emotional affair, but its hurts like if it was physical.

    Coping with Infidelity
    i am 23 years old and my husband is 33 years old we have a 2 1/2 year old son and we have been married for 3 years. k to the point... mid. dec my husband seemed distant, i couldnt tell wether it was him or me, so i didnt think much of it. dec 18th my husbands and i anniversary. we had a great...
  13. Still Trying to Get Over it

    Coping with Infidelity
    Ok Well I am new to this but someone told me to join some kind of Group, People that have actually been through the same thing or similar to my story..... Well lets see me and my husband have been together for almost 7 yrs, married for 5. We have a little boy and I have a oldest by a previous...
  14. One hurt after another....

    Coping with Infidelity
    One lie after another, when does it stop Like many other stories, this one too will be long. Sorry. ALthough Im not married to my 'hubby', we live together with 4 children. Originally, we started off as just 'buddies' & at the time, that worked for me as I just didnt want the hassle of a...
  15. I am the cheater

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have known my wife for almost twenty years, more than half my life. Our marriage was not perfect but it was not bad. I began a four month affair with a co-worker that started out with cell phone calls and moved on to meeting for drinks where there was physical contact. My wife found out and...
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