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  1. Please give me some advice

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have been married 18 months and been together for 3 and 1/2 years in total. We have a big age gap. I am 22 and he is 45. Our relationship started off really messy. He was still legally married (but had been separated for a number of years). However I believed their marriage to...
  2. He talks to his former mistress

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband has been talking to his former mistress. He was over seas for 3 years and they were friends. Our marriage started getting tough and he cheated on me with her. I could do nothing becuase i was here in the states and they were over there. Hes been home a few months and shes in...
  3. Job search

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I need a job to leave my husband. I shared my story recently. I can't decide what part of me is using excuses to not take the leap and what part is legitimate reasons. I finally found a great job opportunity. I did a recorded phone interview and bombed it. I am confident that I'm talented at...
  4. Advice from women who left a bad husband

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I posted my story before, but the basics are: I wasn't a good husband. It involved an EA, alcohol abuse and anger issues. Wife left me a year ago. We've stayed in pretty constant contact. We've had numerous occasions of physical intimacy. Meetings for holidays and birthdays, etc. Several dates...
  5. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.....

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Ok Guys obviously I don't understand how the male mind works. So enlighten me, please. So I dated my X boyfriend for 16 months. I told him I loved him (which I did) about a yr. into the relationship. He said he "felt" love for me but wasn't sure at the time which I told him was fine. I never...
  6. Help with midlife crisis spouse

    Coping with Infidelity
    First time on this forum. I know that the marital problem I’m going to describe isn’t uncommon, but it has a couple of aspects that I haven’t heard addressed elsewhere. I’d like to hear some perspectives on the situation. Wife and I have been together 21 years, married 19. Two girls, ages 15...
  7. Contact with his ex

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hey all, I have posted on here before regarding my long term partner's sometimes contact with an ex. She was and still is married. I had terrible upset when I discovered he was in contact with her via text (that I know about) in the past some of which were inappropriate texts. Long story short...
  8. Confusion about everything!

    Reconciliation
    At this point in my marriage i am completely confused. I really need advice on what i should do. talkin to friends and family just doesnt work bc of course they are bias. So the situation is this. Me and my husband got married in May 2013. shortly after, around August 2013, he and i seperated...
  9. Depression and relationships

    General Relationship Discussion
    My partner suffers with depression that makes him go through spells of being very down/ unmotivated and unwilling to leave the house. When depressed he gets angry and starts explosive arguments with me for little or no reason. He says he doesn’t mean to/ can’t stop/ doesn’t even realise he’s...
  10. Advice on marriage?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Good morning everyone. I've really been thinking about this a lot and decided to seek out help from the Internet. I haven't contemplated marriage counseling because it seems like my issues are just me. I've been married to my husband for 2 years and together for what will be 4 years this...
  11. Haven't Forgotten The Kind Help!

    General Relationship Discussion
    To Everyone I Have Not Replied To, I am still processing everything you have said to me to help me in my situation. I've responded to some, others require more thought on my end before I respond back. I feel very overwhelmed right now and it's not due to what everyone has said to me. It's just...
  12. Concerning children and marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I love him and we've been through a lot together. I want to spend my life with him and thinking about that not happening is heart breaking. However, there is one issue. Last night he was telling me about some dream he had and it was funny so I said...
  13. He just won't have sex with me

    General Relationship Discussion
    My FH is an incredible, kind, giving man. We fell in love fast and hard, but have been together for going on 3 years.. That love was unconditional throughout all of our relationship, and still was well into our engagement. But he just won't have sex with me. It isn't that he wants to wait until...
  14. Please Help!!!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Im completely lost. I have been married for almost two years now. We dated for three years prior. My wife loved me, I used to think no one could love me like here. A year into our marriage she hit me out of the blue when she told me she contemplated divorce, the following week she left me to...
  15. Does this behaviour make sense to any men out there - please?

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Hi (sorry this is going to be a bit of a long post) I have been with my husband for 9 years and married for 5. We fell in love quite quickly and were engaged after being together a year. When we first met, I was 21 (he was 25) and I had planned to go travelling at the end of that year - as we...
  16. My husband doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have been best friends since the 8th grade. We have been dating for 8 years and married for 3. When we had first gotten married we were going through a phase where we tripped on acid almost every other day. We also smoked pot on a day to day basis for many years. I started to...
  17. My husband's a pig???

    Relationships and Addiction
    So, awhile back after my husband and I had talked about pornography and our opinions on it, he told me it would not bother him at all to not look at it anymore because it bothered me. A couple of months after that I was taking a bath and he thought I was going to take a long time and went to...
  18. This guy i badly need advice!Please Help!

    The Ladies' Lounge
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  19. Is it bad or normal that im worried if getting married was the right thing?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for 3 weeks but been together for 5 years. We are young and have been together since high school. We do not have any kids we have stayed together because we wanted to be together not because we felt we had to. Here's my issue. :confused: In the past I have...
  20. Am I doing the right thing?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    A little bit of back story: I met my husband 8 years ago and things were great. We were both in our early twenties with very little responsibility. We enjoyed dancing all night and drinking and all kinds of carrying on. We were exciting and passionate. After 8 months of dating we decided to...
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