confused about spouse

I'm new to the forum world so please bare with me. So back in October I found out my husband had contacted a "massage therapist" off of Craigslist that's offered sensual massages. That day I was a bit busy and wouldn't be home till late that afternoon. He never went through with it because she...

A week ago I found out my husband has been "sexting" with someone he met online. They've been sending pictures, talking dirty and what not.. He says that it only happens when we are fighting and it's been going on for the past 6 months. They've never met in person and they never discuss any...

Sounds kinda weird but my Husband and I have been together for over 7 years, married for over 2 years. (one toddler and one on the way) Since the beginning I knew he had a thing for feet. When I am tired or touched out I like being able to give him my feet and 'calm him down'. We have always had...

I hope someone can explain this. My wife and I got married 5 years ago and sex was amazing before and just after marriage, however it was intense, couple of rounds each time. After the birth of our first child, things started to change in an awkward way. Our sex life started to die out. then...

Today started very well. Nothing unusual. We were going to leave to for a one-night mini retreat the next day so I asked my husband to vacuum the stairs. This has caused mild outrage, as always, and an attempt to move the arduous task to "later". I insisted. And in addition, I asked him to also...

h ithere im newlywed and i love my husband , but the way that he treats me sometimes i cant take it anymore... He calls me names when he gets angry and he just doesnt really respect me, hes controlling and only thinks of himself sometimes, Dont get me wrong there are alot of great times but i...

Hello everyone, so glad I found this forum as I am going through a difficult time right now. I will try to keep this short and straight to the point, any advice or thoughts is much appreciated. My husband and I have been married for 13 years. We've had our difficulties along the way. I...

We've been married just under a year. I am aware that I can be insecure and needy. I want the relationship to work. I think she does too. But I am not sure she wants more than a roommate and provider. We fight using hurtful words a bunch but seem to come back to a good place within 24 hours...

After being married for 14yrs, I found out that my husband had several affairs for the past years. Even after I found out I forgave him only for him to come back and tell me that he found another woman and he was done with our marriage. He left the house and moved in with this woman. He said...

Can anyone tell me if this is something one should take very seriously - if a husband calls his wife names and pokes at her insecurities - He has called me a fat bit%ch once. After the first time I was furious and we agreed it wouldn't happen again. However he just called me that name again...