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  1. Am I Being Selfish? Need some advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi I'm a 31 yo female. I've been dating my bf for 9 months, and we're on the verge of breaking up. I'm trying to figure out if he is being unreasonable and selfish or if maybe its me! The largest problem is lack of time and inability to keep plans with me has always been a problem. Today it...
  2. Different life goals

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    My spouse and I have been together for almost a decade now. For most of that time, we've had a really strong relationship. We got together because we both shared a love of the outdoors, and we've had a lot of adventures together over the years. We even hiked over 2000 miles of the Pacific...
  3. I'm really angry with my relationship

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, Ive used this forum before and found it very helpful so am hoping to get some guidance with this road block in my relationship. I have known my girlfriend for a while now. We get on great most of the time. We have the same type of job but we dont work together. And i love her. She makes me...
  4. HD/LD relationship survival

    Sex in Marriage
    I am new here, but have an coping strategy that has bothered me for a while. My wife and I had a great sexual relationship early on in marriage 5-7 times a week. Then it went down to 2-3 and now it is 1 time a week for her. I never changed though. In order to cope I started going to strip...
  5. No matter what I do its not enough.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everybody, I am new to this so bare with me, I am not married but I am in a serious relationship with a women who I love dearly and think the world of her she is my best friend and we have been together for three years and I want to marry her. My girlfriend loves her family, when I say...
  6. Is watching Porn OK in a marriage?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband has an addiciction to porn/sex. I am not ok with him waching it at all. We have had several talks about it, and he informs me that he will stop. He sometimes tells me he doesnt like his addiction and he wants to stop. Then other times he tells me his need or wanting to watch porn is...
  7. In-Laws on the horizon

    General Relationship Discussion
    My in-laws are moving to our town from the Midwest. As a result they will be going from 1000miles from us to about 1.5 miles from us. I like them and I understand as our parents get older, being close to family has benefits, should something happen or just to visit more often. In the past...
  8. "I won't change, don't like it?, leave"...Maybe I should?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I need an outside opinion… My husband and I have been married 4 years, no kids yet. We enjoy each others company, like many of the same activities and he is a very good loving and trustworthy man. However, our political and spiritual beliefs differ greatly and we also generally disagree on any...
  9. Newly married, differences in intimate appetite, what to do?

    Sex in Marriage
    My husband and I have been married almost 2 years. I'm not satisfied with our love life... I'll explain... I am 5 years younger than he- he's 28, We were married right before I turned 21. We became physical a little before we were married, and it was exciting and romantic. I loved the pace...
  10. What is the right amount of compromise?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been married for about six months, we have been living together for about a year. Before this I never kept a boyfriend for more than three months because I could always feel it just wasn't right but now, I am so crazy about my husband. For the first time I feel like I am with an equal. We...
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