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My husband and i have never tried bdsm or anything but we've had some really rough sex. The sort of "pounding in every orifice, mimicking porn" kind of sex. It was for him, i never cum, I'm made very uncomfortable and sometimes physically distressed, and i always said that i needed something...

Husband 33M says working on us feels like a chore to him. We have severe communication issues as well as sexual issues. Mainly I 29F have a much higher sex drive than he does. I want sex more. And he just isn't a sexual person. He doesn't try to please me sexually. Doesn't show any kind...

Apologies for being so incredibly long winded. I've been holding back information from my husband, something that has been steadily growing inside of me that I've fought away desperately: disgust. He disgusts me. I think he might be a narcissist and is definitely addicted to porn. The...

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Feeling like I need somewhere to go to search for ideas and thoughts and also working through my own frustrations/venting concerning communication problems in my 12 year marriage. Feeling like I always have to be the bigger person and let my feelings and concerns be pushed aside to address my...

Hello everyone, new to the community. I really need a guy's opinion here on the topic of gaslighting. I had to have a talk with my husband of 15 years over sex. He 100% pulled away from me for several years. Nothing, and I mean nothing in the sex department. Then a few months ago, he just came...

Hi, I'm not really sure how this kind of thing works, but I'm looking for support and objective opinions on my situation. I have been married for eleven years, and most of that time it's been pretty good. Life has been tough for a very long time, but our relationship has been fairly stable for...

My wife and I are starting our 55th year of marriage (mercy! where did the time go?), and we have learned a number of things about how to make our marriage work. I doubt that we have THE answer for any one marriage, but we have had lots of valuable experience. We may be able to help some couples...

When I was dating my now husband he was always a man of few words. Not much of a conversation starter but could keep a conversation going if interested. Over the 8 years of knowing each other we have always had the same issue of communication. I have tried so very hard to get to know him and...

For many years now my husband and I have had this constant argument hanging over our heads. And any time we have it, it ends up always being my fault. I either said something offensive or just said something that turns him off completely. I am a sarcastic person, I have been pretty much my...

Hello, this is my first time posting, but I am hopeful of getting a new perspective on the issues I'm facing. I have been married for 6 years and have two grown sons; my husband does not have any children and we don't have any together. If I tell about his overall behavior during the years we've...

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My wife and I are both 40, 3 children ranging from 4-11 years of age, and have been together for 19 years (married for 14). We sometimes argue about the usual marriage stuff ie money, household chores, difference of opinion in how to raise our children etc. Sometimes when we argue (about 30%...

My fiance who we have lived together for 3 years and moved across the country to be together after meeting on vacation through mutual family friends walked out a week ago. All the signs of walk away wife. Looking back on it there was opportunities I should have seen where she was communicating...

Our toddler watches 2-3-4 hours of TV everyday and it's driving me crazy!! I saw studies that it affects development a bunch, especially at such a young age.. But playing with my toddler for 2-3-4 extra hours also kinda drives me crazy! And my wife is the same way. I thought after we put the...

My husband and I have been married for 16 years. We have come a long way with communication and conflict. We were lucky to find a retirement home on a popular lake earlier this year. What I need help with is setting reasonable boundaries for visitors. My husband's children make arrangements...

First of all I'm sorry for posting to the women's section, but I'm tired of reading posts suggesting you put recorders in your wife's car and read her text messages to find out the truth. Also I want to apologize for the length of the this post.. My situation isn't pretty, my wife and I...

So my husband and I have been married 12 years (and have four kids). I think we both agree we have a good supportive marriage, open communication, good sex life, etc. But all through our marriage about every six months I have somewhat of "breakdown" where I'm in tears or near tears because I...

Do you ever wonder what causes your blink-of-the-eye, intense reactions to your spouse or partner? Jokes aside about Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Do your ever witness yourself or your partner go from zero to bat-zip angry over something that, much later, doesn’t really matter? It’s painful. And...

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