co-dependency

It is about about a month since she left to another city to be with the man she had both an emotional and physical affair. My soon-to-be ex wife cheated on me with her patient which was both unethical and illegal. We have been together for four years. We have been married for 2 years. We have no...

I'm 8 months out from dday, D is final 2/26. There's still pain and until recently I thought it was missing her and our life together, family etc. But I've been thinking deeply about the 18 years we were married, and in most respects it was not very satisfying, emotionally or physically. I...