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  1. Just got divorced

    Dealing with Grief and Loss
    I was with the love of my life. Some trials and tribulations happened connected to Childhood trauma. I begged for people to be with me as I worked through this because I was always there for everyone else but no one would help. My life was falling apart and everyone just turned the other way. I...
  2. Introducing Myself

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello, I am introducing myself per the sign up instructions. I am mainly on this site because I found it informative leafing through the forums. I also joined because some things in a marriage are best talked about anonymously with people that don't know either party in the marriage. I am...
  3. Introduction and situation in review

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey everyone, just my introduction post. I'm a guy in a serious, common-law relationship with my partner for coming up to 4 years. We're parents to a lovely infant son. I'm about to collide with middle age (turning 50 - I know, I know, I took my time). We've had a lot of rockiness in our...
  4. Wife often threatens to leave when we have disagreements

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I are both 40, 3 children ranging from 4-11 years of age, and have been together for 19 years (married for 14). We sometimes argue about the usual marriage stuff ie money, household chores, difference of opinion in how to raise our children etc. Sometimes when we argue (about 30%...
  5. Wife just left me a few weeks ago

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi, a little back story, me and my wife have know each other since we were teenagers we got together when I was 20 and she was 19, we got married 1 year in and I’m now 29 we have kids together, she had 1 child from her previous marriage. I had a feeling we were going down hill and I tryed...
  6. Failing Relationship - need advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    Let me start by saying my fiancé and I have been together for six years. We met through and online dating site. I was six months out of a two year relationship and was ready to move on with my one year old son in tow. When we met, it was amazing. He reminded me what it was like to have someone...
  7. My Wife won't let me or my Kids visit my Parents

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hey every one. I need some advice. This is going to be a very lengthy story, but PLEASE bare with me, because I REALLY NEED some advice. I am Married with Two Children of my own and Two Step Children. A few months ago, the house which we were renting was getting ready to be sold, leaving our...
  8. Please Help

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi all. I am in desperate need of advice. This will be a long post. Back in 2015, my husband and I went through marital problems. I posted on here about it. Long story short, he told me he was unhappy, went into a deep depression, and had an emotional affair with a coworker. After failed...
  9. my husband won't let me have an abortion

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    I'm new here and i hope you could help me... i've been married for 8 years now and i have two boys, 2 weeks ago i found out that i'm eight weeks pregnant (obviously ten now) and i've decided to have an abortion but when i told my husband about it he refused to let me. The news of my pregnancy...
  10. My wife is having an online affair with a convicted child killer (and many other men)

    Coping with Infidelity
    My (36M) wife (27F) and I have been married for 5 years. We have a 3 year old son together and I have a son and daughter from a previous marriage. About 3 months ago, I noticed my wife beginning to act strangely. She started ignoring me, spending less time with the kids, spending excessive...
  11. I'm falling out of love - with the love of my life.

    General Relationship Discussion
    This is my first post, anywhere, so thank you in advance for your support. For the first time in a long time, i'm genuinely happy with myself and who I am. My self-confidence has returned, i'm very fit and healthy and at 33 years of age am excited about life, both present and future. But, I...
  12. Applied for a divorce

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    After weeks of pleading for the H to return our marriage certificate, I have at last lodged a sole divorce application. Because we have children under the age of 18 I have to attend court but I don't mind this so much. The day I went to court to lodge it and pay the fee it felt like my heart...
  13. Call it quits??

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi! Sorry this is a bit long but I want your opinions on what you think of my marriage? My husband and I have been married for 9 years we have 3 kids under the age of 8. Heve always been in control in this relationship financially and everything. At first I thought it was because he is jealous...
  14. Children's Reactions

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    For a variety of reasons, I am considering telling my husband I want a divorce. My plan is to wait until after the holidays. Obviously, I am agonizing over this decision, but I have caught him several lies and overall have just realized that he has become a very selfish person who treats me...
  15. Does anyone else feel lonely sometimes?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi, I'm not sure if this is the correct forum. Mods please move my post if it's not. Long story short I have been separated from my husband for 2 years. I recently started to feel very lonely. I do have friends and all that but I miss intimacy and affection. Our marriage was rocky for...
  16. Separated and husband hates me

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi, I'm not sure what I looking for but I just needed to tell someone what my husband has said so many times over the last few months. We have been separated for 2 years and have 3 children. He likes to tell me that he despises me, hates me, that I am vindictive, that I don't care about his...
  17. Just a Vent

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello Everyone, I just joined less than an hour ago. I'm happy to be here and will support as many as I can while I'm on here. I'm 37 years old, my husband is 36. We have two small children under 5. He had been cheating on me since my oldest was 6 months old up until I had proof he was...
  18. Trapped

    General Relationship Discussion
    What I want to know is has anyone ever been in a situation like this where the marriage lasted? My husband and I have been married for 9 years. We have an 8 year old son and a 5 year old daughter. We both love them. I do not like my husband anymore. If I had to choose someone to go to the...
  19. I have two children, 3 and 1.5 years old...is it possible they are BOTH autistic?

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    As the title describes/asks. My daughter of 3 years old says only single words, out of context, out of meaning. She babbles alot, but in a completely different tone of voice and no recognizable words. She just decided to poop in her diaper, take off, smear it against the floor, laughing and...
  20. Feeling extremely overwhelmed living near family and in laws- HELP!

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    My husband and I have been married for over 6 years and have 3 kids. We have had our fair share of ups and downs but one thing that I feel that is taking a huge toll on me is our families. He has a large family of 7 siblings and I have 5 siblings and live near my dad and step mom. I am in...
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