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  1. A Bit of Advice from someone who has been on both sides

    Coping with Infidelity
    In reading some of these threads - and I posted a few long ago - I have some thoughts for those of you posting. Please hear me out because I have been on both sides of this fence: 1. If your gut tells you something is wrong LISTEN! It probably is. 2. Don't wait for years thinking that...
  2. I've been sleeping with a girl that has a boyfriend of 3 years

    Coping with Infidelity
    I met this girl named Fi 3 years ago. We kind of fancied eachother, but we lived in different cities, so we didn’t pursue anything. A couple of months later, she got a boyfriend. I felt a little hurt, but I wasn’t all that bothered since nothing could’ve happened between us. Three years later, I...
  3. Together 11 years, married for 6 months - possible divorce

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everyone, I’ve always read stories on dating and marriage forums and I never thought I’d be posting about my own issues. I’m sort of at a loss for what I think is going on in our marriage and wanted to hear your opinions and thoughts. We’ve been together for a long time (I’m 29 and she’s...
  4. Private Browsing

    Coping with Infidelity
    Good morning, On Sunday, I discovered my H using a private browser on his phone. The last site he visited was still up-PornHub. When I questioned about the private browsing he said his phone updated with that and that he had nothing to do with it. I said, "oh, okay".I know this is not true and...
  5. He doesn't wanna have sex, but I found a lube?!

    Sex in Marriage
    So, I joined this forum because there isn't everything OK with my marriage right. My husband doesn't want to have sex with me, he doesn't want to sleep with me - he mostly spends nights on a sofa instead comming to bed. But just yesterday when going through things a bit I found a lube hidden...
  6. Would you want to know? Caught my ex cheating on her fiancee with...

    Coping with Infidelity
    ... the woman she cheated on me with (while she and I were dating). Also, please forgive me if I'm in the correct forum or not. I'm a woman and Kayla was my first same-sex experience in both getting physical with another woman and dating. I was struggling accept my sexuality, while she had...
  7. caught my husband one night stand andi idk what to do now!

    Coping with Infidelity
    hi, so my name's nyla and i am not sure if i am posting at the right space but. Anyways. i have been married for a year now. and my husband is a cabin crew and he flies all the time, of course. And throughout our time together, i have never once doubted his actions or felt any insecurity...
  8. A tragic story!

    General Relationship Discussion
    "Affar"? between family members How are you everybody. I am the new member and I am very happy to be here since we are going to help each other to get through some of our darkest moments of our life. I was seperated with my husbnd. My sister in law try to take sexual advantage of me right...
  9. Contact from Ex

    Life After Divorce
    Recent background: I had been posting a bit in another forum (named after a shack), but their site disappeared from the internet a couple of weeks ago (anyone know why?). I had hit on that one by accident. Now I realize this forum is quite a bit more active, so I'm going to give it a try. I...
  10. Wife had affair with her boss

    Coping with Infidelity
    So on Oct 17th 2017 I discovered that my wife had been having a 6 month long affair with her boss. On the 17th I thought it was just an emotional affair but on the night of Oct 20th we got into a huge argument and she didn't come home that night. This was the first time anything like that had...
  11. I am pregnant and my husband is checking out

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Please, I need urgent help... My husband and I are together since two year and married since only 4 month. When we met, everything was great, and he knew instantly that i will be the woman he wants to marry. My husband has been very loyal with me and also with his ex relationships. We both got...
  12. Need some feedback

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, I have been with my husband for 20 years. Married for nearly 17, we have 2 kids, a 15 year old daughter and an 11 year old son. I never would have believed I would be in this situation as I truly would have NEVER believed that my husband would cheat, but here I am. He travels a lot for...
  13. How do I respond to virtual infidelity?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for over 5 years. We have one child (a toddler) and, as of 2016, I am a stay-at- home mom. We also just bought a house. Throughout our marriage, my husband's porn use has been a constant issue. I compromised and said that magazines and dvds were fine but...
  14. Living a lie.. Can't be with him anymore!!! Help!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm living a lie. It looks like I'm living an amazing life. But behind closed doors things are much different. I cannot tolerate my husband. I feel like I'm struggling every day. Being a mom is hard work. But I feel like it's even harder when you have a husband like mine. A husband that has...
  15. He talks to his former mistress

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband has been talking to his former mistress. He was over seas for 3 years and they were friends. Our marriage started getting tough and he cheated on me with her. I could do nothing becuase i was here in the states and they were over there. Hes been home a few months and shes in...
  16. High school sweetheart cheated on me then continued talking to him

    Coping with Infidelity
    I know this is alot as you can imagine being a long relationship/marriage. I'm cutting a few things out to shorten it up but feel free to ask for clarification. Please excuse any grammar or punctuation errors, I typed this up as quick as possible. Cliffnotes: My high school sweetheart of 17...
  17. asking wife to have sex with other man

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am 29 she is 29 and very hot. I have this fantasy of her having amazing sex with a super large ****. she is very worried about what I think of her. I never said anything but I use a large dildo dodo and tell her how good her ***** look so spread. she asked me " does my ***** look spread" one...
  18. Depressed cheating wife

    Coping with Infidelity
    ...Where to start?... She's been depressed for years now.. possibly can have other undiagnosed mental illnesses. Slowly she was losing interest in me..It started with her leaving going out with friends for a month she was usually never home. She lost those friends and a few months later met a...
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    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
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  20. Wife Cheated now what

    Reconciliation
    My wife and I have been at odds for many years. FIghting about literally every topic one can think of. I am by no mean an angel, but I show my wife respect, do virtually everything she asks me to do, and I do try to be a great husband and dad. I sure I fall short on many things but she does too...
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