cheating

This is a long post but I really hope to get some insight I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and I never expected nor saw any of this coming. He would always tell me how happy he was and that he couldn’t picture his life without me. I felt the same. He is the only person in the world that...

I've been in a relationship for 8 years. We met when I was 16 and he was 17. Last year we got married and it was a wonderful wonderful day! However, I've noticed him speaking to a couple of women and I can't tell if it is my over reacting or if the way he is acting is not appropriate in a...

On an image board I saw a post explaining why women prefer cheating/promiscuous men which is what inspired me to make this post (Possibly because it signals that they have options) . I wanted to discuss if women feel more attracted to their partner when they know they are desirable to other women.

I just want to share something that has been on my mind this couple of months. My husband has been blatantly give lies that is which if I think again, is so unnecessary. I don't get him. What is wrong with him. He has changed his behavior altogether. I mean he just bought a watch but does not...

In reading some of these threads - and I posted a few long ago - I have some thoughts for those of you posting. Please hear me out because I have been on both sides of this fence: 1. If your gut tells you something is wrong LISTEN! It probably is. 2. Don't wait for years thinking that...

I met this girl named Fi 3 years ago. We kind of fancied eachother, but we lived in different cities, so we didn’t pursue anything. A couple of months later, she got a boyfriend. I felt a little hurt, but I wasn’t all that bothered since nothing could’ve happened between us. Three years later, I...

Hello everyone, I’ve always read stories on dating and marriage forums and I never thought I’d be posting about my own issues. I’m sort of at a loss for what I think is going on in our marriage and wanted to hear your opinions and thoughts. We’ve been together for a long time (I’m 29 and she’s...

Good morning, On Sunday, I discovered my H using a private browser on his phone. The last site he visited was still up-PornHub. When I questioned about the private browsing he said his phone updated with that and that he had nothing to do with it. I said, "oh, okay".I know this is not true and...

So, I joined this forum because there isn't everything OK with my marriage right. My husband doesn't want to have sex with me, he doesn't want to sleep with me - he mostly spends nights on a sofa instead comming to bed. But just yesterday when going through things a bit I found a lube hidden...

... the woman she cheated on me with (while she and I were dating). Also, please forgive me if I'm in the correct forum or not. I'm a woman and Kayla was my first same-sex experience in both getting physical with another woman and dating. I was struggling accept my sexuality, while she had...

hi, so my name's nyla and i am not sure if i am posting at the right space but. Anyways. i have been married for a year now. and my husband is a cabin crew and he flies all the time, of course. And throughout our time together, i have never once doubted his actions or felt any insecurity...

"Affar"? between family members How are you everybody. I am the new member and I am very happy to be here since we are going to help each other to get through some of our darkest moments of our life. I was seperated with my husbnd. My sister in law try to take sexual advantage of me right...

Recent background: I had been posting a bit in another forum (named after a shack), but their site disappeared from the internet a couple of weeks ago (anyone know why?). I had hit on that one by accident. Now I realize this forum is quite a bit more active, so I'm going to give it a try. I...

So on Oct 17th 2017 I discovered that my wife had been having a 6 month long affair with her boss. On the 17th I thought it was just an emotional affair but on the night of Oct 20th we got into a huge argument and she didn't come home that night. This was the first time anything like that had...

Please, I need urgent help... My husband and I are together since two year and married since only 4 month. When we met, everything was great, and he knew instantly that i will be the woman he wants to marry. My husband has been very loyal with me and also with his ex relationships. We both got...

Hi, I have been with my husband for 20 years. Married for nearly 17, we have 2 kids, a 15 year old daughter and an 11 year old son. I never would have believed I would be in this situation as I truly would have NEVER believed that my husband would cheat, but here I am. He travels a lot for...

My husband and I have been married for over 5 years. We have one child (a toddler) and, as of 2016, I am a stay-at- home mom. We also just bought a house. Throughout our marriage, my husband's porn use has been a constant issue. I compromised and said that magazines and dvds were fine but...

I'm living a lie. It looks like I'm living an amazing life. But behind closed doors things are much different. I cannot tolerate my husband. I feel like I'm struggling every day. Being a mom is hard work. But I feel like it's even harder when you have a husband like mine. A husband that has...

My husband has been talking to his former mistress. He was over seas for 3 years and they were friends. Our marriage started getting tough and he cheated on me with her. I could do nothing becuase i was here in the states and they were over there. Hes been home a few months and shes in...

I know this is alot as you can imagine being a long relationship/marriage. I'm cutting a few things out to shorten it up but feel free to ask for clarification. Please excuse any grammar or punctuation errors, I typed this up as quick as possible. Cliffnotes: My high school sweetheart of 17...