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  1. The Men's Clubhouse
    We've been married for 2 months. Dating and living together for 3 years. Husband and I are in our upper 50's and our sex life is great. We don't have sex like at the beginning, but at least once a week. He introduced me to sex toys, which I knew they existed but never used them before...
  2. Sex in Marriage
    My husband of 18 years all of a sudden started accusing me of cheating two years ago. He has accused me of sleeping with over 200 different men. He always says he has the proof but will never show it to me. But he is positive each time. I swear he search Facebook for men in our town and accuses...
  3. Coping with Infidelity
    Sorry this is a long read but I think the context is needed before requesting advice. Met my wife in 2009 and married in 2012. In early 2019, I found out she was cheating on me with one of her co-workers. I confronted her and threatened to leave, but she begged for forgiveness and wanted to work...
  4. Sex in Marriage
    All captialization and punctuation is exactly as was typed by the two parties, no emphasis added here. J Is: Guy My Hasntt Seen Or Talked To, Up Till A Few Weeks Ago(onFB). This FB IM, she admitted when I Caught Her With Other Stuff, That She Had Talked To Guy Here (J) On The Phone (was...
  5. Coping with Infidelity
    This is a long post but I really hope to get some insight I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and I never expected nor saw any of this coming. He would always tell me how happy he was and that he couldn’t picture his life without me. I felt the same. He is the only person in the world that...
  6. General Relationship Discussion
    I've been in a relationship for 8 years. We met when I was 16 and he was 17. Last year we got married and it was a wonderful wonderful day! However, I've noticed him speaking to a couple of women and I can't tell if it is my over reacting or if the way he is acting is not appropriate in a...
  7. General Relationship Discussion
    On an image board I saw a post explaining why women prefer cheating/promiscuous men which is what inspired me to make this post (Possibly because it signals that they have options) . I wanted to discuss if women feel more attracted to their partner when they know they are desirable to other women.
  8. The Family & Parenting Forums
    I just want to share something that has been on my mind this couple of months. My husband has been blatantly give lies that is which if I think again, is so unnecessary. I don't get him. What is wrong with him. He has changed his behavior altogether. I mean he just bought a watch but does not...
  9. Coping with Infidelity
    In reading some of these threads - and I posted a few long ago - I have some thoughts for those of you posting. Please hear me out because I have been on both sides of this fence: 1. If your gut tells you something is wrong LISTEN! It probably is. 2. Don't wait for years thinking that...
  10. Coping with Infidelity
    I met this girl named Fi 3 years ago. We kind of fancied eachother, but we lived in different cities, so we didn’t pursue anything. A couple of months later, she got a boyfriend. I felt a little hurt, but I wasn’t all that bothered since nothing could’ve happened between us. Three years later, I...
  11. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everyone, I’ve always read stories on dating and marriage forums and I never thought I’d be posting about my own issues. I’m sort of at a loss for what I think is going on in our marriage and wanted to hear your opinions and thoughts. We’ve been together for a long time (I’m 29 and she’s...
  12. Coping with Infidelity
    Good morning, On Sunday, I discovered my H using a private browser on his phone. The last site he visited was still up-PornHub. When I questioned about the private browsing he said his phone updated with that and that he had nothing to do with it. I said, "oh, okay".I know this is not true and...
  13. Sex in Marriage
    So, I joined this forum because there isn't everything OK with my marriage right. My husband doesn't want to have sex with me, he doesn't want to sleep with me - he mostly spends nights on a sofa instead comming to bed. But just yesterday when going through things a bit I found a lube hidden...
  14. Coping with Infidelity
    ... the woman she cheated on me with (while she and I were dating). Also, please forgive me if I'm in the correct forum or not. I'm a woman and Kayla was my first same-sex experience in both getting physical with another woman and dating. I was struggling accept my sexuality, while she had...
  15. Coping with Infidelity
    hi, so my name's nyla and i am not sure if i am posting at the right space but. Anyways. i have been married for a year now. and my husband is a cabin crew and he flies all the time, of course. And throughout our time together, i have never once doubted his actions or felt any insecurity...
  16. General Relationship Discussion
    "Affar"? between family members How are you everybody. I am the new member and I am very happy to be here since we are going to help each other to get through some of our darkest moments of our life. I was seperated with my husbnd. My sister in law try to take sexual advantage of me right...
  17. Life After Divorce
    Recent background: I had been posting a bit in another forum (named after a shack), but their site disappeared from the internet a couple of weeks ago (anyone know why?). I had hit on that one by accident. Now I realize this forum is quite a bit more active, so I'm going to give it a try. I...
  18. Coping with Infidelity
    So on Oct 17th 2017 I discovered that my wife had been having a 6 month long affair with her boss. On the 17th I thought it was just an emotional affair but on the night of Oct 20th we got into a huge argument and she didn't come home that night. This was the first time anything like that had...
  19. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Please, I need urgent help... My husband and I are together since two year and married since only 4 month. When we met, everything was great, and he knew instantly that i will be the woman he wants to marry. My husband has been very loyal with me and also with his ex relationships. We both got...
  20. Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, I have been with my husband for 20 years. Married for nearly 17, we have 2 kids, a 15 year old daughter and an 11 year old son. I never would have believed I would be in this situation as I truly would have NEVER believed that my husband would cheat, but here I am. He travels a lot for...
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