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  1. My wife just had an affair...

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife and I have been married for 11 years. It was a childhood love. We were teenagers when we married. I'm 28 and she is 26. We have a 5 year old boy and a 2 year old girl. We had our entire lives planned. Then, last week, we got into a big argument. She left the state for a family wedding...
  2. Wife had an affair and does not know if she wants to stay married

    Coping with Infidelity
    Need some help here. I have been with my wife for almost 10 years and married for 5 years, we have 2 kids (2 and 4 year old). 2 Months ago I found out she has been having an affair for the last year with one of her coworkers that is also married and has 2 kids. I imediatly blew up and said a...
  3. Is This Video Real?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My girlfriend showed me this. Pretty harsh. Does anyone here at TAM know if this was real or fake? Apparently the husband filmed WW in bed with another guy. When he finally let them know he ws there the OM booked out like a scared rat. Dramatic Moment, Wife Caught Cheating at Texas -...
  4. Is this really my life?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I've recently found this forum and wanted to post my story, both for input/advice and just to get it off my chest. My wife and I have been married almost 10 years, and we've had a somewhat rocky marriage. Mostly from me- lying to her, lack of communication, issues with porn, etc. I definitely...
  5. Humorous Mother's Day cards for the WW

    Coping with Infidelity
    What "special" message would be in the card for your wayward wife? (or OW for the gals?) I pinched these from a couple of TAM regulars: Not making light of infidelity - humor is one just way we cope. .
  6. Wife Cheated - Please Help

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, Apologies if there are other threads on here regarding this, but I have been through a lot and can't find any that match my situation. I have been with my wife for about 9 years and married for nearly 4 years. About 9 month ago I was having doubts about our marriage and starting to...
  7. In over my head, wife wants a new man.

    Coping with Infidelity
    Let's see... where do I begin. We've been married 14 years and together for 16. We did get married a little young at 22 and started having kids shortly thereafter. We've had our ups and downs, as every marriage does, but nothing this major. Without all the back history of my wife's divorced...
  8. Should I give her a second chance

    Coping with Infidelity
    Sorry for the long story but never in a million years did I think I would be writing this post. My wife and I have been married for almost 22 year and we have a great marriage. Of course we had our minor disagreements but no real fights. We have three great children and I have a job that...
  9. Separated for a year and wife wants me back?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I could sure use some unbiased advice… I have been separated for a year, wife of 11 years moved out 7 months ago. We always cared and loved for each other, but grew apart in the last few years and i sensed some distance, and from time to time, felt that she wasn't happy. Last year i found out...
  10. Karma and life after divorce

    Life After Divorce
    I think Karma is amazing! I left my ex-wife 7 years ago and discovered after I had left that my, (at the time), best friend who was also our mechanic had not been servicing our vehicles but my ex as well. Which would explain after the fact, why when her car needed something it would be done...
  11. She says she is not at fault. What should I do?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife of 6 years had a torrid, albeit brief, affair in February this year. When I found out about it I was devastated and there was this period of massive emotional turbulence. Eventually I decided to forgive her and move on, as she convinced me that it was a very brief spur of the moment...
  12. conditions on wanting a second chance.

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married for 8 years. My husband and I were having problems.(well I felt we were) He was never around, always wanted to be in church, always wanted to fix his car. We were in the process having his papers fixed. I was the only one working full time and come home wanting to see him and...
  13. Walk away wife moving in with AP

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife of 18 years left 3-1/2 months ago and moved into her own tiny apartment, leaving me and our 11 year old daughter. Now she's looking for an apartment to move in with her AP. She kept me in limbo for 3 months, saying she needed more time to decide, but I now believe she was just doing that...
  14. I may not be the father

    Coping with Infidelity
    I found out that my wife cheated on me 22 years ago then again 2 years later. Both times were one night stands while I was deployed in the Navy. I just found all this out 4 days ago and am trying to cope. At the beginning of the week I had the ideal marriage but now I'm a mess. We were so...
  15. just got married and caught my wife...

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I really really need help, I am clueless and lost and don’t know what to do. I got married 5 month ago to a girl I’ve been with since high school. I remember her constantly asking me when are we going to get married. Its not that I didn’t want to do it but the concept never made sense to me. I...
  16. Getting married in 10 days - fiance caught trying to hook up with a guy.

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Need help confronting her, not sure what to do next. Background: * She begin flirting with the guy two years ago kind of became flirty friends both in person and via text. The further they got sexually was exchanging a couple of nude pics via text. * They never hooked up because my fiancé wanted...
  17. deployed with a dead marriage.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Ok. So, I married my wife in March. Love her to DEATH. We were each other's world, up until about 2 weeks ago. I deployed in April. She seemed to be handling it well; we spoke daily and for a few hours and were SO reluctant to get off the phone. 2 weeks ago, all contact virtually stopped. I have...
  18. Messed up over wife's affair - what do I do?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife and I have been married over 26 years - shes 49 and im 50. Few years ago she started going out on weekends and clubbing with her friends and I said I was uncomfortble with it and she said well why dont you come along - which is what I started doing. So I did, then I started working...
  19. When To Confront Cheating Wife

    Coping with Infidelity
    I would love to hear the ladies' point of view on my situation. I'm a 44-year old man in Sweden and I just found out that my wife, who's 10 years younger, has an affair. We haven't talked about it yet and my problem is that I don't know if there is a "good" moment to do so. I don't want to blow...
  20. I caught my wife cheating and waiting her to come home

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, I already did a thread that I was thinking my wife have an emotional affair. I installed a spy software in my wife phone and I got the answer. Today I heard her telephone calls and tracked her with the gps and yes she cheated on me. They went meet in a hotel for a sauna. During the time...
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