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  1. Advice Needed-Wife Cheating?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Been lurking here for awhile now. I have been married for 22 years and recently realized my wife may have been cheating on me more than just once thru out our marriage. Her job job takes her away from home quite often but beyond that she takes vacations on her own not inviting me saying she to...
  2. Finding it Hard Letting Go of Resentment

    The Ladies' Lounge
    While I was pregnant, my husband pulled away emotionally and stopped having sex with me. I think we had sex twice while I was pregnant. I never felt so lonely or disgusting. While we have a beautiful child now which I am so thankful for, I can't seem to stop being hurt and angry by that. Before...
  3. Is my Wife a *****?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am 43 and have been with my wife for 21 years. I will keep this brief. I was very close to my Mum and Dad, i lost my Mum to MND in October 2008, I lost my dad to Prostate Cancer in December 2011. My Brother in law was Killed in a RTA in January 2012. I Lost my Job for no reason in...
  4. Wife Cheated - Please Help

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, Apologies if there are other threads on here regarding this, but I have been through a lot and can't find any that match my situation. I have been with my wife for about 9 years and married for nearly 4 years. About 9 month ago I was having doubts about our marriage and starting to...
  5. Another Chance

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife had an affair so I asked her to moved out. She is currently living in another City but wants to move back home. Here is a letter I wrote her...I keep on asking myself would it be a mistake to go back to this relationship because you have cheated on me twice already, why would I trust...
  6. Getting married in 10 days - fiance caught trying to hook up with a guy.

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Need help confronting her, not sure what to do next. Background: * She begin flirting with the guy two years ago kind of became flirty friends both in person and via text. The further they got sexually was exchanging a couple of nude pics via text. * They never hooked up because my fiancé wanted...
  7. Relationship Infidelity and Coping

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am new to this is and have just registered. I read a couple of posts now, and everyone seems to have this hip acronym language that I am not going to learn just to make a post. So recently my wife told me that she cheated on me. Actually she told me she had a sexual encounter, but that she...
  8. My wife cheated multiple times but admitted it and is sorry

    Coping with Infidelity
    Bear with me, this is a long one. Last friday, feb 3 2012, while at work at night shift I got a text from a stranger telling me that they saw my wife out in the middle of the night 2 times in this past week, 1 with her sister and a guy, and the second with the guy alone, and seemed to have...
  9. Am I crazy or is she cheating?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife and I were having problems in our marriage for many years. And then one day she threw me out of the house. She started going out almost every night drinking with a group of friends from her work. She worked in the athletic department at a State University so it was a male dominated work...
  10. Hurt and need advice

    Coping with Infidelity
    Ok so, my wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 4 months w/ 2 children. While laying in bed one evening, she decided to tell me that she had been sexually assaulted. Her abuser was her best friends brother. Although, as time went on ( 2 days), I began to give the situation...
  11. So confused, looking for experience and advice.

    Relationships and Spirituality
    The somewhat short version: My wife and I have been married for 4 years, we have been together for 13. Through our dating there had been the occasional guy I caught her talking to and having an inappropriate relationship with and I had an in appropriate relationship with one lady, through...
  12. Signs to Know If You are Jealous of Your Partner

    General Relationship Discussion
    Some people believe jealousy is a sign of love. But real love involves trust and communication, not accusations and snooping. When jealous behavior becomes a problem, it's most often a manifestation of the jealous person's own insecurities and self-esteem issues. Here are some signs that you may...
  13. I need advice badly

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, My wife and I have been married for 31/2 years. After a year of marriage she cheated on me and we worked it out. Which obviously left a mark on me. For the most part I am over it but there is scarring for certain. So anyways roughly about 21/2 years have passed since the incident...
  14. It's just sex?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I understand that men are from mars and women from venus, but is it really possible that men can think that "it's just sex"? Can they separate that type of thing, whether it's an actual physical affair or heavy flirting, from their marriage and their feelings? Can they really compartmentalize...
  15. do i let go or fight

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I have been with my guy for quite a while, we have a toddler together and lately things have been rocky financially which of course makes things between us tense and stressful. In the past we had an issue with a "friend" of his who i think he was having an emotional affair with, i say emotional...
  16. What a kick to the balls - wide cheating

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife told me last night that she had cheated on me with a guy from work, who she says no longer works there. I am 27 and she is 28 and we have been together for 8 years and married 5 years. Before we got married she had had relations with another guy but not intercourse. She told me last...
  17. How We overcame adultery

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    My wife and I have been married for 30 plus years. We have 5 children and 3 grandkids. In July 2009, I discovered that she had been cheating on me for about 12 years. We have recovered and are doing very well. It may seem hard to believe but it's true. If there is anyone who sincerely wants...
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