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I am a Beta male. I do well, earn a good living, drive a nice car, have a nice house, wife drives a nice car, we have family money, and she works and earns a good salary from my father's company. Things are good. The kids are in school and doing well. And as an UNassertive man, I've let my...

Been lurking here for awhile now. I have been married for 22 years and recently realized my wife may have been cheating on me more than just once thru out our marriage. Her job job takes her away from home quite often but beyond that she takes vacations on her own not inviting me saying she to...

While I was pregnant, my husband pulled away emotionally and stopped having sex with me. I think we had sex twice while I was pregnant. I never felt so lonely or disgusting. While we have a beautiful child now which I am so thankful for, I can't seem to stop being hurt and angry by that. Before...

I am 43 and have been with my wife for 21 years. I will keep this brief. I was very close to my Mum and Dad, i lost my Mum to MND in October 2008, I lost my dad to Prostate Cancer in December 2011. My Brother in law was Killed in a RTA in January 2012. I Lost my Job for no reason in...

Hi, Apologies if there are other threads on here regarding this, but I have been through a lot and can't find any that match my situation. I have been with my wife for about 9 years and married for nearly 4 years. About 9 month ago I was having doubts about our marriage and starting to...

My wife had an affair so I asked her to moved out. She is currently living in another City but wants to move back home. Here is a letter I wrote her...I keep on asking myself would it be a mistake to go back to this relationship because you have cheated on me twice already, why would I trust...

Need help confronting her, not sure what to do next. Background: * She begin flirting with the guy two years ago kind of became flirty friends both in person and via text. The further they got sexually was exchanging a couple of nude pics via text. * They never hooked up because my fiancé wanted...

I am new to this is and have just registered. I read a couple of posts now, and everyone seems to have this hip acronym language that I am not going to learn just to make a post. So recently my wife told me that she cheated on me. Actually she told me she had a sexual encounter, but that she...

Bear with me, this is a long one. Last friday, feb 3 2012, while at work at night shift I got a text from a stranger telling me that they saw my wife out in the middle of the night 2 times in this past week, 1 with her sister and a guy, and the second with the guy alone, and seemed to have...

My wife and I were having problems in our marriage for many years. And then one day she threw me out of the house. She started going out almost every night drinking with a group of friends from her work. She worked in the athletic department at a State University so it was a male dominated work...

Ok so, my wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 4 months w/ 2 children. While laying in bed one evening, she decided to tell me that she had been sexually assaulted. Her abuser was her best friends brother. Although, as time went on ( 2 days), I began to give the situation...

The somewhat short version: My wife and I have been married for 4 years, we have been together for 13. Through our dating there had been the occasional guy I caught her talking to and having an inappropriate relationship with and I had an in appropriate relationship with one lady, through...

Some people believe jealousy is a sign of love. But real love involves trust and communication, not accusations and snooping. When jealous behavior becomes a problem, it's most often a manifestation of the jealous person's own insecurities and self-esteem issues. Here are some signs that you may...

Hello, My wife and I have been married for 31/2 years. After a year of marriage she cheated on me and we worked it out. Which obviously left a mark on me. For the most part I am over it but there is scarring for certain. So anyways roughly about 21/2 years have passed since the incident...

I understand that men are from mars and women from venus, but is it really possible that men can think that "it's just sex"? Can they separate that type of thing, whether it's an actual physical affair or heavy flirting, from their marriage and their feelings? Can they really compartmentalize...

I have been with my guy for quite a while, we have a toddler together and lately things have been rocky financially which of course makes things between us tense and stressful. In the past we had an issue with a "friend" of his who i think he was having an emotional affair with, i say emotional...