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  1. My husband cheated on me with a swinger couple - now he has gonorrhea!

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello everyone. I'm a 26 years old woman married to a 37 years old man. As of now, we have been married for almost 3 years. Our marriage is great and we have a regular, healthy sex life as well. We have no kids but we were planning to start our own family soon. Thing is, my husband was into...
  2. I can't be the only one, can I?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Ok, I am new to this sight, so here is my story. Any advice, personal experiences and outcomes would be helpful….So I have been married for almost a year now but I have known my husband for 12+ years. We had the most amazing, loving caring relationship of all, or so I thought and so did everyone...
  3. Physical anxiety

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Horrible chest pains and nausea making it hard to deal physically with dealing with being under the same roof as my husband until we can hash out custody agreement for our son for during the separation. Right now he has agreed I can take our son on a planned trip to see my family over the...
  4. Separated - husband can't decide what next

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    This is going to be a long story, so please just bare with me. I've gone back to edit it to trim it down a bit :) * been together for 2 years, married 8 months * had been under contract for buying a house when this started * I just got accepted into nursing school 5 days before he dropped the...
  5. I exposed affair and husband now wants divorce!

    Coping with Infidelity
    I found out about my husband's affair by breaking into his phone and reading his messages. I know I shouldn't have done that but I did it because I really love my husband and I had a terrible gut feeling something was going on. I feel terrible about invading his privacy. He asked me for a...
  6. Advice - Married, with kid, but I know I'm gay - Depressed?

    Relationships and Addiction
    At age 22, whilst studying at University, I met a girl who I pretended I was in love with. A year later, we had our first child, Max, which later lead onto marriage, 2 years later. Max is now 5 years old and I’m 28, and everyone says we’re the perfect family, but I’m in fact seriously depressed...
  7. I caught him.....

    Coping with Infidelity
    Last weekend I caught my husband cheating. I had been suspicious for about a month. He started a new job and all of a sudden his cell phone was MIA and he was on our home phone with her at 10:00 p.m. (right after I went to bed). I casually asked him what was going on and he said she was a...
  8. Desperately trying to ruin my husband's affair trip now

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am now desperately trying to find a way to ruin my husband's affair trip going on right this moment. We are married for almost 25 years. He is now with this woman that he did not even know the last name. He bought airline ticket for her vacation in CA and joined her from east coast for her...
  9. Feeling lost and lonely.. will I ever forgive him for cheating on me and our kids?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi I'm new to this... I just found out 2 weeks ago that my husband cheated on me 12 days after our 3rd child was born with a woman he met on facebook. I am wanting to give him a 2nd and final chance and I am really hoping that some time soon I will be able to forgive and that he can rebuild my...
  10. Married to a habitual liar

    General Relationship Discussion
    I feel so lost and I don't know what to do. I have been with my husband for 13 years and have dealt with his lies since day 1. This is my first marriage and my husbands third. He cheated on both of his previous wives. He told me all about the issues and told me that he had changed and that he...
  11. Please give me honest advice..Husband cheating?.

    General Relationship Discussion
    There is a man and a woman...They met online. They quickly fell in love with one another. About 6 months into their relationship she found out he was talking to other women..Not completely sure how many, maybe just one. She confronted him. He swore he loved her and he would never do it again...
  12. ADVICE NEEDED: Newlywed Husband's secret emotional affair with co-worker

    Coping with Infidelity
    About 3 months ago, my husband and I went to a holiday party in which he got really hammered. That night, while he was passed out, I went through his phone (i know not good) and saw that he had booked a hotel room for the week before during the work week. I asked him about this, and after many...
  13. I'm Still Angry & Becoming Bitter

    Coping with Infidelity
    Sometimes I hate myself because I stayed with him after blatant disrespect! Sometimes I amaze myself with the bull I say, as if I'm in such a loving relationship. He is a changed man, I will give him that, but now he's in a high position and he's always been the good guy... It's not that I want...
  14. Need advice dealing with bi-sexual husband

    The Ladies' Lounge
    My husband and I married after only knowing each other a short while. After we married, he confessed he was a cross-dresser and considered himself bi-sexual. For a while I tried to accept this, even encourage the dressing, but it increasingly bothered me. He seems to have an exceptional need...
  15. Seperated 2 months - I cheated on my wife with man - she is in a fling - HELP

    Reconciliation
    Ok so here is my story. Sorry for the lengthiness but I figure you need to know it all. Im a 24 yr old married male (separated at the moment) I met my wife in high school and we started dating 03/03/07 my senior year (she graduated year prior). We knew of each other and hung out few times in...
  16. Newly wed and cheated

    Coping with Infidelity
    ok here is goes. I have been married since Sept 2011. In July of 2012 my husband that I have been with for 6 years cheated. It was a wam-bam-thank-u-mam. Looking through phone records and text records they had talked for a few weeks and met only that one time. He said he has not cheated ever...
  17. Should I stay or go?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello. I am in a sticky situation as I do not know if I should just walk away from a 6 year marriage. I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me. The last straw is when I found out that the last trip he made, he went to a different place and went to party in the cheap bars with...
  18. Husband is addicted to flirting and talking about sex

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married for 14 years now and we have 2 boys. From day one my husband has been a flirter but always managed to keep it pg and some what under control. I have given into his fantasies about another women in our bed. About 3 years ago he told me a fantasies about him being with another...
  19. so lost in my own head

    Coping with Infidelity
    I just recently found out my husband and best friend cheated on me. He had been laid off for two years and finally got a job traveling for three months with another one of our friends. We have three children 2, 5, 7 and have been married for 8 years. To further complicate things we have been...
  20. Husband is a bully and a cheat

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I met my husband April last year, he was on a holiday, went back home and we kept incontact. Just as friends. September last year I found out I was pregnant...I had to love my work because I was working on a cruiseship and I got too sick..I told him this..and he said he won't hold it against me...
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