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My husband recently went away for business and I exposed him in a series of lies that have completely changed my feelings towards him. Backstory: friends 20+ years, living together for 10, children together (under 7), married just a year and a half ago. We have kept the children home doing...

Hi guys. I have been actively following stories on this site and have learned a lot about marriage. A big thank you to all the Alphas on this page who are brutally honest and tell it like it is. Well, to paint a picture about my situation, I am newly married since end of December 2020. My...

Hi, new member here.....concerned about a conversation I had with my wife last night so I am coming here for feedback. So my wife and I have been happily married for about 15 years. We have 2 kids and we have a trusting relationship with little to no bumps, just the usual nitpicky stuff here and...

I will give a little back round on my marriage and what has led me here looking for advice. I am hoping that I can get some advice or see if someone else has been through this. I am 35 and my wife is 39. My wife and I have been married for 13 years and together for 15. We have 3 kids 11, 17...

My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We have one daughter (3). He is in the military and we just relocated to a new state. He came home from a year long deployment overseas a few months ago. Since he’s been home, things have felt different. Really couldn’t put my finger on what it...

Hello everyone reading this....... I have a question that I’m hoping people can help me with. I have been married for the past 4 years, to someone I’ve known since 2007. We started off as friends with benefits, but being young at the time (around 18 years), I feel in love with him. I then asked...

Hey, not sure where to turn, but ran across this site and thought it could be good therapy to tell my story... My wife and I have been married for 10 years. I've been married before and this is her first marriage and we have 2 children together. Seemed like a typical marriage... things really...

I am a new member here, I am looking for a way to move on with the mixed feelings I have. Just a brief background, my husband is a member of a well known alternative band in our country. Recently I had a few drinks with my husband and he admitted that one time he had a one night stand with a...

I met this girl named Fi 3 years ago. We kind of fancied eachother, but we lived in different cities, so we didn’t pursue anything. A couple of months later, she got a boyfriend. I felt a little hurt, but I wasn’t all that bothered since nothing could’ve happened between us. Three years later, I...

I have been with my Boyfriend since February 2018. This morning (8:43am) a man I dated (non sexually but he did try to kiss me once) before him texted me to say hi and to see how I was doing. Last time we spoke he knew I chose my current Boyfriend. When I dated this guy we would work out...

My husband and I have been married for over 5 years. We have one child (a toddler) and, as of 2016, I am a stay-at- home mom. We also just bought a house. Throughout our marriage, my husband's porn use has been a constant issue. I compromised and said that magazines and dvds were fine but...

"HAPPY" new year, not? Need opinions/advices. hello everybody, I need some kind of help. it is escalating here and i don't know what to do. my husband betrayed me in our dating phase and right after our wedding. i found out 6months after we moved together (after our wedding). at this time my...

I had to recently kick my wife out of the house. She had begun lying to me about money and then cheated on me while I was sick. Our marriage had already seemed to have lost its spark but I still loved her and would never have wanted to leave her. She stopped coming home when I got sick(Strep)...

Hello everyone. After a long time bottling up these feelings I decided to ask for the opinion of people who don't know me or my husband. Maybe you can give me a more truthful answer without being afraid of hurting my feelings. My husband (let’s call him G) is my high school sweetheart and we...

First, we need to define what exactly an emotional affair is. It usually contains no physical intimacy, but does include a strong emotional intimacy. They can begin innocently, but then usually progresses into more secretive communication. This can include texting, messaging, or even meeting in...

Hello there. I have been a lurker on this website for several years and this is the first time I am posting. I am a 29 year old woman, engaged to a 27 year old man. We have been together for over 3 years. Over a year ago, I discovered that my fiancé had a porn addiction and was also...

Hi All, New to this site and this is my first time dealing with infidelity like this. I'm really looking for examples of people working through these types of situations or if I should really be even thinking of working it out. Every other time I've been cheated on I've left with out question...