cheating and infidelity

I am a new member here, I am looking for a way to move on with the mixed feelings I have. Just a brief background, my husband is a member of a well known alternative band in our country. Recently I had a few drinks with my husband and he admitted that one time he had a one night stand with a...

I met this girl named Fi 3 years ago. We kind of fancied eachother, but we lived in different cities, so we didn’t pursue anything. A couple of months later, she got a boyfriend. I felt a little hurt, but I wasn’t all that bothered since nothing could’ve happened between us. Three years later, I...

I have been with my Boyfriend since February 2018. This morning (8:43am) a man I dated (non sexually but he did try to kiss me once) before him texted me to say hi and to see how I was doing. Last time we spoke he knew I chose my current Boyfriend. When I dated this guy we would work out...

My husband and I have been married for over 5 years. We have one child (a toddler) and, as of 2016, I am a stay-at- home mom. We also just bought a house. Throughout our marriage, my husband's porn use has been a constant issue. I compromised and said that magazines and dvds were fine but...

"HAPPY" new year, not? Need opinions/advices. hello everybody, I need some kind of help. it is escalating here and i don't know what to do. my husband betrayed me in our dating phase and right after our wedding. i found out 6months after we moved together (after our wedding). at this time my...

I had to recently kick my wife out of the house. She had begun lying to me about money and then cheated on me while I was sick. Our marriage had already seemed to have lost its spark but I still loved her and would never have wanted to leave her. She stopped coming home when I got sick(Strep)...

Hello everyone. After a long time bottling up these feelings I decided to ask for the opinion of people who don't know me or my husband. Maybe you can give me a more truthful answer without being afraid of hurting my feelings. My husband (let’s call him G) is my high school sweetheart and we...

First, we need to define what exactly an emotional affair is. It usually contains no physical intimacy, but does include a strong emotional intimacy. They can begin innocently, but then usually progresses into more secretive communication. This can include texting, messaging, or even meeting in...

Hello there. I have been a lurker on this website for several years and this is the first time I am posting. I am a 29 year old woman, engaged to a 27 year old man. We have been together for over 3 years. Over a year ago, I discovered that my fiancé had a porn addiction and was also...

Hi All, New to this site and this is my first time dealing with infidelity like this. I'm really looking for examples of people working through these types of situations or if I should really be even thinking of working it out. Every other time I've been cheated on I've left with out question...

I am 22, I recently have moved back home to live with my parents and older brother after graduating university. My parents have been married for around 30 years and show no sign of a troubled relationship. My dad has always had a toxic relationship with looking at women on the internet. I...

Cheating Wife, help needed. Since 2012 I had suspected that my with of 7 years(back then) was having an affair. I had followed all the tell tail signs of picking up SMS's between friends, her locking her phone, her coming home late etc, a classic scenario that we all hear of. She was guilty of...

First some backstory about my marriage: I have been married for about 2 weeks to a woman who I have known for 20 years and lived together with for 8 years as a couple. We are in our early 30s and have no kids. I earn a very comfortable living, and she has a lot of debt. She was with me before...

Hi. Thanks for taking the time to read my post. My wishes to gain some public opinion on my situation. I will try to explain as clearly and easily as I can but as i am hurt and still in shock I might go off track a bit. My beautiful husband who I have 3 young kids with and who I have put on a...

Hi Everyone, I'm going to try and not bore you with all the details, but suffice it to say I cannot get past the regret of my divorce. The divorce was finalized over a year ago and we have been separated for over two years. I'm still young - turning 31 this year - which also brings up issues...

Hi everyone - I'm brand new here. I hope it's okay to just jump in with my story but I'm losing my mind and I'm hoping I can find some support here. I'll try to keep it short. I'm 45, husband is 54. No kids. We've been "together" for 19 years, married for almost 14 years. I can't say...

Thank God for this site! I have been married for close to five years. The wife and I get along pretty well in public but their sex life is on the outs. She is a teacher so we do it more when she has academic breaks. However, as soon as her schedule gets busy, sex goes out the window. Earlier...

My story is one I never though Id have to tell and honestly I have been completely alone dealing with this for almost a year now and desperately need any advice any of you are willing to give. I feel like I am at my breaking point. A little background on the previous 9 years - my husband was so...

Hi All. I'm new here and just about to start a trial separation with my husband. We've been married for just over 3 1/2 years and are having some serious issues. I apologize in advance for the long post ahead.... My husband has been a serial cheater. I feel like every form a logic should tell me...

This is the first time on these message boards, and I really didn't think I would end up here. I guess I should start from the beginning. My wife and I started dating in highschool and we have been together for 13 years (Married 3 years). We always were happy with each other (or so I thought)...