Talk About Marriage banner

cheater

  1. I destroyed my beautiful family, I don't deserve to live any more

    Coping with Infidelity
    ... not helping ...
  2. I've been sleeping with a girl that has a boyfriend of 3 years

    Coping with Infidelity
    I met this girl named Fi 3 years ago. We kind of fancied eachother, but we lived in different cities, so we didn’t pursue anything. A couple of months later, she got a boyfriend. I felt a little hurt, but I wasn’t all that bothered since nothing could’ve happened between us. Three years later, I...
  3. Need to hear the truth

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey my first post and figured I’d reach out to who ever would just tell me what to do..I’ve read some Marriage forums about wife hating you, and honestly I don’t see that they pertain to me. Why? They all have some type of hope of coming back from That..I don’t and I am to Blaim! Here’s a run...
  4. Seven Ways To Leave A Cheater

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I thought I will share this with you guys. Seven Ways To Leave A Cheater By Tracy Schorn Leaving a cheater is an intimidating process. It’s not like you want to blurt out to everyone in your life, “Hey, Bob won’t quit cheating on me. Do you know a good divorce attorney?” And anyone...
  5. Help please. Prostitute use.

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am a female age 59 partner age 58. We recently undertook a huge construction project and built his dream business building, and bought a 98 acre farm. Sold my house (it was mine alone) May 30. Found out June 10 partner had been using prostitutes for the past 2.5 years. Korean sex traded...
  6. Found condom in husbands trunk!

    General Relationship Discussion
    To start off, my husband and I have been together for 5 years and next month married 1 year. Most of our relationship has been rocky because of his infidelity. We have 4 children all together, 1 before the relationship and 2 together. He has been hanging out at a "homeboys" house and won't come...
  7. Why Do Guys And Girls Cheat? RAW! SECRET REVEALED!

    Coping with Infidelity
    Why Do Guys And Girls Cheat? RAW! SECRET REVEALED! check out this YouTube Video https://youtu.be/ga1yyaqpQ0M
  8. Messy relationships

    The Men's Clubhouse
    So - I have this friend [M38] (not close, but still a friend) who has been with his fiance [F38] for about 18 months. They bought a house and have been living together for about 5 months. About at the same time they bought the house - 9 months ago - he told his ex GF [42] (my friend) about his...
  9. What would you do???

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello, Let's assume for a moment, you've been married a few years, no mutual kids, she/he has a dependency problem and everything that goes along with that: infidelity (at least one that was admitted to), the money, the lying, the craziness, taking off for days or as long as a week or so every...
  10. In the dark for 29 years with a bi-husband, Mormon- liar!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I was married for 29 years to a bisexual man and didn't know it. I welcome any thoughts on this. Please excuse my writing in advance, as English is my second language. I have been separated from my STBX for 8 months and sadly will divorce as soon as I can. I am a Christian, and so is my STBX...
  11. A week after renewing vows, he's at it again!

    Coping with Infidelity
    I've been married for 5 years and we just renewed our vows and decided to make a fresh start. 3 years ago I was unhappy and almost had an affair. I couldn't bring myself to do it. He found out and was extremely upset. I tried for a long time to tell him what I felt was wrong and he just...
  12. Caught ya!

    Coping with Infidelity
    Okay....well, it's hard for me to know where to begin. I posted here a while back about the possibility of my husband cheating, among other thoughts that could be going on. 2 very long months later and my husband and I have kind of reunited. For the record, my husband did cheat on me. We are...
  13. Help!!!

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been together for 21 years, married for 14, we have 2 kids-15 year old girl and 9 year old boy. I found out 2 summers ago my husband had an affair with a younger girl in Columbia. Once i confronted him with what I knew, he was very sorry, saying that it was over...
  14. Separated and Now Know Why

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, My common law partner asked to separate a year and a half ago and moved out 10 months ago into her own condo. At the time she said it was because "she loved me, but wasn't in love with me". While separated we have been fairly amicable and were still doing a lot of family activities...
  15. Serial Cheater Signs

    Coping with Infidelity
    I wrote this up in another thread. I thought it might be a good idea to post them for you all...If you see these signs in your S, then there is a good chance they are cheating again Serial cheater: when cheating will in stages (remember it gets progressively worse) 1. Becoming overly excited...
  16. What is going on? Advice needed!!

    Relationships and Addiction
    Ok, everyone. I am going to try and make this as simple as possible, while adding as many details as I can. I found this website today, I wish I had done so years ago. I hope it helps someone else see the light. Here’s my story. I am 27 years old. I married at the age of 22, less than a year...
  17. Women who leave children

    Coping with Infidelity
    I'm trying to understand the thinking of women who walk out on their families, choosing to be FULL time with some AP and PART TIME with their children. Like my STBXW. Women have every right to leave a husband who is cheating, a drug addict, abusive, alcoholic, or guilty of willful nonsupport...
  18. Not worth my tears, yet I can't stop crying

    Coping with Infidelity
    My 5-year relationship started off magically but quickly turned rocky. He was hesitant to date me because he said he wasn't yet over his last long-term relationship but that didn't stop him from taking all my firsts :o and he was so sweet and respectful about it all, a real gentleman. The first...
  19. thought I was over it

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband cheated on me the entire time we dated. It was a long distance relationship that he had, but had seen her on business. I knew about this woman before hand and was told that she was his ex from where he used to live and it was over before we started dating. I did not find out until a...
  20. Overreacting? or Overstepping?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Am I overreacting or over stepping the boundaries? A couple of nights ago whilst putting the son to sleep and general cleaning my partner was on the laptop at the dining table. I noticed everytime I walked past he would exit out of a conversation he was having with someone over facebook. The...
Top