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So, I wanted to tell my story of surviving infidelity. After two months of trying to understand, why my husband cheated. And what kind of mistakes I made for this to happen. Here goes... My husband and I have known each other for 15 years. We were friends at school. He’s been in love with me...

Hi, I’m 45 and my husband 41. About 2 years ago I found out he was having an affair with a 26 year old. When confronted, he told me it started The month before and chose to leave the house and not try save our marriage. Fast forward two years, we are divorced and she now lives in the house I...

I'm curious why she even bothered to marry me? My now EWW and I married in September of 2016 and she decided to leave me for her boss in January of 2018. Crazy. What happened in 18 short months? History on my situation here...

Hello. My wife recently left me to sleep with other people. We were so happy for years and when she started a new job last spring she started to change. She was staying out late, hanging out with guys from work and even started going to some customers house and told me later about it. I was...

My husband and I have been married for about a year and a half now. I found out he was cheating about 6 Months ago and I decided to stay although sometimes I get second thoughts. My Husband and I met in high school and were dating for four years before we got married in April 2014. Our married...

My husband is a boss of a small company. We have been together since junior high school. Actually when we decided to marry with each other, my father invested his company so he can have his own career. And we were so happy and seemed to love each other. But things changed. Several days before...

Hi, My husband just moved to an apartment and I am staying in the house with my 16 year old son. Husband moved primary items, but we have a house full of "things" which he still uses, i.e. tools in garage. He said he would like to come over on Saturday's and just "hang out". He said this way he...

Hi Everyone, About two months ago, I found out that my wife had been cheating on me for five years. We have been married since 2009 and recently had a baby less than a year ago. Basically, the OMs wife found several e-mails between my wife and the OM. The OM ended up confessing to everything...

I posted before and now I need more help then ever Last night was crazy and I don’t know what to do or what’s going to happen now. I asked my parents if they could pick up the twins from school. So my husband and I could be alone. I was scared I wasn’t going to be able to tell him everything...

I have been with my husband for almost 14 years. We have been married for almost 9 years. We are both 31 and we dont have any children. About 6 months ago he told me he wasnt entirely happy and didnt know if he wanted to be married anymore. This came to me as a complete shock. I have been happy...

It has been a while since posting, but I have a new issue come up. I am looking to make a career move to a great new company that is preferably Fortune 500. I have been applying to several companies on the Fortune list, where one in particular has expressed interest. However, I just realized...

Been reading these threads for a while - as my wife cheated. Been going through the same journey as many others and feel ready now to make the break. She's out now. Came home from work at 7, disappeared to the bathroom then her room (yes, we've separate rooms) door closed. Then a swift 'I am...

I had a thread going in the considering separation area and everyone was telling me it sounded like an affair. I was angry that everyone was so negative ... They didnt know us. i hate them for eing right. As our separation started things just didnt seem to add up. I looked into the phone...

I'll try to make a short story of this... My husband had a bit of a breakdown about 10 days before our 10 year anniversary. Wasn't sure if he wanted to stay with me or not because he is depressed and didn't want to drag me down. I told him if he still loves me then we'll get through it...

In December, my husband was discharged from the military. He was planned to move in with me immediately after. But before he actually left his base, he had found out that I had cheated on him. Although its only been a month or so, my paycheck alone is barely cutting it with all of the bills to...

Looking for some much needed guidance and advice… My wife and I have been married for almost 2.5 years now. We started out as friends in college and after about a year began dating. We dated for about 4 years before we got married. About a year before we graduated college we began to really...

A few days ago my wife confessed to me that she had a sexual encounter with my best friend while on a trip. She told me that they kissed and touched for over 2 hours in the next room. She claims that he didn't penetrate her with his penis, but he did use the finger, I don't know if its true or...

I cheated on my wife and feel absolutely horrible about it. I would like to explain the situation that occurred and I would appreciate any insight anyone might have as to how I can get my wife to forgive me or if I am crazy for even thinking it is possible. There is a couple that my wife and...

It's a bit of a long story, but I'll try to narrow it down a tad.... I met him 4 years ago. I was a single mother, and he loved me anyway. He proposed, we found out we were pregnant (I was on birth control), got married, and everything seemed perfect. Six months after my youngest was born, I...

***Sorry, this is long, but its the first time I am getting a chance to talk to some one other then family..I found out about the infidelity 3 months ago and we have seen a Councillor approx 6 times*** Hi, Im new to this site....well Im actually new to a few things 1) Newly married- 1.5...