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  1. I destroyed my beautiful family, I don't deserve to live any more

    Coping with Infidelity
    ... not helping ...
  2. Where do I go from here?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Wow, finally a place where I can get advice - good or bad - truthful and honest... My story is a long and complicated one. It started over 20 years ago when I first cheated on my now wife, then girlfriend with a woman from work. I'll cut it short but since then I have re-offended on multiple...
  3. Very Curious

    General Relationship Discussion
    Why men cheat on their wives? Emotional disconnection? Bad sex? Wife unattractive? What's the real reason men cheat? Did you ever cheat in your wife? Why? For how long? Did you ever though about leaving your wife to stay with your lover?
  4. Did he really say that, or am I crazy?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Are my feelings/reactions justified? Husband is a pilot and out of town. Just spoke to him. We had been texting all morning between flights. As were are talking on the phone he starts saying that his flight attendant was "adorable" and he wants our daughter to be just like her. OK! I'm not...
  5. How can you breakup with someone, but still live with them?

    General Relationship Discussion
    About a month ago my life feel apart. I had a feeling that my boyfriend was cheating on me. He told me he wasnt, but i didnt believe him. I hacked into his email to find a conversation with him a coworker. He was planning on taking her to the movies. I confronted him about it and he continued to...
  6. I'm not attracted to my beautiful wife sexually.

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I'm not sure how to start and what to say exactly but the problem is that ...
  7. So many signs, but he denies.

    Coping with Infidelity
    So about 8 months ago, a week before our wedding, we were cleaning out our laundry room because we needed a new water heater. To my surprise, I found an empty durex condom wrapper, I say durex because he refuses to use anything other than Trojan brand for some reason. I don't know why, because...
  8. Countdown to Divorce - Cheating She-Devil

    Coping with Infidelity
    Been reading these threads for a while - as my wife cheated. Been going through the same journey as many others and feel ready now to make the break. She's out now. Came home from work at 7, disappeared to the bathroom then her room (yes, we've separate rooms) door closed. Then a swift 'I am...
  9. Is my Wife a *****?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am 43 and have been with my wife for 21 years. I will keep this brief. I was very close to my Mum and Dad, i lost my Mum to MND in October 2008, I lost my dad to Prostate Cancer in December 2011. My Brother in law was Killed in a RTA in January 2012. I Lost my Job for no reason in...
  10. Karma Police

    Coping with Infidelity
    I'll try to make this as short and entertaining as possible for the readers out there. My wife and I have been married for nearly 8 years. For much of our marriage I have had an ongoing issue with her lack of affection and support. Several times she has put me down or insulted me; failed to...
  11. 5 year bf caught cheating. Please help me

    Coping with Infidelity
    He is my live in partner for 5 years and we live in his mom's house. He is now 37 and I am 30 yrs old. Before I met him, he was a bum with 2 kids and a wife working as a sales lady at the mall. His wife left him with another man and took their 2nd child. She never came back and never heard from...
  12. BF is LD, I am HD - very close to having affair

    Sex in Marriage
    I know cheating is wrong. Just wanted to get that out first. In this rl for 4.5 years. The 1st year was great, lots of sex and sexy sex. Then, we moved in together and the sex became more infrequent. Fast forward to now and if I don't initiate, I don't get. I've told him time and time again...
  13. New wife/mom devistated and lost

    Coping with Infidelity
    ***Sorry, this is long, but its the first time I am getting a chance to talk to some one other then family..I found out about the infidelity 3 months ago and we have seen a Councillor approx 6 times*** Hi, Im new to this site....well Im actually new to a few things 1) Newly married- 1.5...
  14. Wife cheats for second time, this time with a woman.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Well... Where do I begin? I guess I'll begin by saying, My wife has cheated on me once with her ex-boyfriend, and once with her new "friend".. First things first. My wife and I got married after only 6 weeks of dating/living together, and only 7 weeks of knowing each other. My wife is a manic...
  15. Did me a favor?

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    Almost exactly a year ago, I married and moved in with a man I knew in school who found me on Facebook. Been a single and solo mom my whole life, 2 great kids (16 and 13). He owned his own business and home with property, dirt bikes, boats, etc. but an hour from the city where I worked. Hastily...
  16. Deconstruct on an internet 'hookup'

    Coping with Infidelity
    I've posted a story here as my introduction, having been married 10 years this July. Although my WH, 11 years my senior, has always seemed to crave attention, I thought that I gave him that. He's had bypass surgery, my teenage son arrested, and with an on-call job that routinely has him...
  17. is he just for sex or does he love me???

    The Ladies' Lounge
    we were good friends since 5 years...always had dis attraction hings going on between us...he had girlfriends and serious break ups and downs in his life...i helped him out...we came close as friends too in the mean time...eventually things materialized - when? his parents fixed his marriage...
  18. Am I worried about nothing?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Ok, so my wife and I have been together for over 10 years. Married for 6. 2 kids. We already have trust issues from various little things here and their. Lots of little lies, usually about insignificant things. One big thing was about 4 years ago, I found out she was staying up at night and...
  19. Overreacting? or Overstepping?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Am I overreacting or over stepping the boundaries? A couple of nights ago whilst putting the son to sleep and general cleaning my partner was on the laptop at the dining table. I noticed everytime I walked past he would exit out of a conversation he was having with someone over facebook. The...
  20. Men, I need your help.

    The Men's Clubhouse
    ok. so this is the first time i am posting on a website like this, but i feel like i have no one to go to. i am so lost and confused. i should explain what is going on. i have been with my fiancee for three years.. going on four. from the moment i met him, i was head over heels in love with him...
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