Long Time Lurker - First Time Poster - I'm looking for guidance and some tough leadership from the veterans. I'd like to share my situation, my early grasp of the 180 (and how I failed just like you vets said could happen), but also the good things that I accomplished. I'm going to crank...

After sharing my issues about my STBX in my last post I had been pointed out my some members about BPD I have been doing some research into BPD & with the points mentioned on shrink4men I am listing my issues I faced with my STBX. As I will be getting a divorce soon I don’t want to go on saying...

I have been married for 4 years. I've always known that my wife was abused as a child, physically, emotionally, sexually. She was raised in poverty and spent time in woman's shelters when her mother was in between relationships. When we met, I was convinced that she was my soul mate, I have...

Here is my Story: I have been married for 14 years and now have a 8 years of son. What a bumpy road of my marriage when I look back. I just informed my lawyer to file the divorce for me. My wife can be a lovely and caring friend. That was what let me fell into love with. But Just after...