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Hi, My wife and I are in our mid-forties. We have three children and we have been together for 20 years, married 16. 15 years ago we were forced to move from my home country and moved to the UK, where my wife is from originally. I had a well-paid job as a Business Development Manager for a...

Hi all....some advice please. We got married 6 months ago, everything seemed right. Things have taken a turn for the worst lately. She changed a few months ago and got a bit more withdrawn. She recently let me know that she has been depressed. I think that it boils down to money. My checks pay...

Okay, this may take a minute to get out, but the first thing you should know is that I am the main offender in my marriage. I have tried to divorce my husband of seven years twice, and cheated on him twice. I am in no way trying to play virgin mary and push all of the blame onto someone else. I...

Hey, new here, need some advice. I'll start from the beginning to give a complete view. Met my wife at work about 4 years ago. We didn't actually start dating until 2 years after that. We moved really fast and moved in together within a month or 2. We started in a new apartment with a new...

I first want to say thank you for looking &/or giving me words of wisdom! We have been married for 5 years. I have been unhappy in my marriage for several years, now I have asked for a separation, in hopes to save our marriage. I guess the best way to start is at the beginning, I wanted...

Six days ago my husband and I got into an argument about something really stupid. I put a screen (or room divider) infront of our patio doors b/c we don't have blinds or drapes and my husband didn't like it there. I explained to him that it gives some privacy since we don't live in a great...

I'v been married 7 years. I notice there is a pattern in our marriage where about once every 2 months my husband will become very stressed and angry and frustrated with either his career or with our housing situation. During the few days where he goes through this stage he seems to want to...

Hi, I have been together with my now wife for about 4 years and things seem a lot more stressful for us since we have been married for about a year. I am going to go ahead an describe on what I have been told my flaws are in one of our quieter conversations. 1) She often refers to me as...

My wife suddenly walked out on me back in March after nearly 10 years together. Within 2 weeks, she had gotten her own place and filed for divorce. We are now in the 90 day state-mandated waiting period. We were best of friends, inseparable, and now she's gone. There is another person she is...