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  1. Wife exchanging nudes with mutual friend.

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife brought up divorce last Friday without telling me any of the truth. She fed me lies about how she grew attraction to her co worker and was feeling wanderlust. We had deep conversations and she said after a couple of days that she wanted to work on us. Some of her actions and words...
  2. Im the one who cheated =(

    Coping with Infidelity
    I screwed up major with the perfect girl for me. Ive known her most of my life but then we reconnected and started a relationship. My prior relationship involved a little girl that i considered my daughter. My girlfriend said she accepted that i felt that way about her. what girl really does...
  3. Funny thread on LS

    General Relationship Discussion
    Read what these stupid *****s have to say and give me your opinions on it: Meeting one of MM's work colleagues openly as his OW - LoveShack.org Community Forums
  4. how to stop the broken record?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi everyone! I'm new here and need help... I'm a BS with a DDay March 6, 2012. A day hasn't gone by that some detail or memory of the events haven't been in my mind. We have been trying to reconcile but the pain seems too much at times. We are both new parents to a 2 month old but it's hard to...
  5. emotional affair? Apparently not to a husband who thinks it is only Black or White

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello everyone, this is the first time I have ever posted anything online so I am not sure if I am in the right area in this site but I really need opinions and would greatly appreciate any you would have....I talk a lot so this may be pretty long but I will try my best to keep it on the shorter...
  6. Serious question about staying together...

    Coping with Infidelity
    My first question would be why would you stay? If you have younger kids, I understand. But because you love her/him... Seriously, they sure didn't care about you while being in bed with another! My second question would be how do you accept such an unacceptable betrayal? What can you possibly...
  7. When Betrayed Spouses of the Cheaters Get Together

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    What is this called? I dont seem to see anything much out on the net about it..... What is it called - What do you think of the two betrayed spouses - the opposites of the two in the affair - getting together? ....particularly to be FWB, b/c let's face it, they are both in the situation to...
  8. Doing the 180, but still have things that I want to say to her

    Coping with Infidelity
    I've been doing the 180 for over a month now, and lately I've been thinking of things that I want to say to my STBXW. Some of them I've already said soon after d-day, but want to make sure she understood what I was trying to express, others have occurred to me since I started the 180. The 180...
  9. Betrayed spouses and why so much pain

    Coping with Infidelity
    I'm constantly thinking about the level of pain infidelity causes the BS, and while it does seem to be lessening as time passes, it's so bad it's almost laughable. My wife was my best friend, then in 10 seconds she wasn't. She was no longer the person I could confide my deepest feelings to, the...
  10. Feeling quite vengeful toward WW

    Coping with Infidelity
    Maybe vengeful isn't the right word. I'm feeling a lot of anger today. She left my daughter and I and moved in with AP and I know they spend Sundays together, never calls to have her daughter on Sundays. It's actually great for me having her all day, it's just this lack of caring on her part...
  11. Fragile Love

    Coping with Infidelity
    What would you do if someone openly devoted themselves to you in every way in any particular way? Through any means of communication with heartfelt positive notion. Would you give in and connect with them no matter the distance or sacrifices you must take? Because, in some way you feel the...
  12. Infidelity or not? What do you think?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello looking for others advice and input for those that are dealing with relationship problems. I've received advice from my inner circle, but I'm not sure anyone can really relate. I am distraught and really beginning to feel very low about myself. Please let me know what you think. Been...
  13. Backed into a corner; what can I do but divorce?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been with this woman for almost 18 years. We have a 17 year old son together. We were divorced once, then we remarried. I have retained an attorney to divorce her, but I do care for her and do not really want to divorce her, but I know if I don't both my son and myself will not have a...
  14. Mending broken trust...

    Coping with Infidelity
    My boyfriend and I have been in a "relationship" for the past 16 years...for most of the time it was long-distance and filled with indescretions on both parts, but we were still a part of each others lives with the intent of one day being together forever. A year and a half ago we took it to...
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