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  1. Husband gave away almost $1400 in a week

    The Ladies' Lounge
    So I have an issue with my husband. Ok so he was furloughed from his job so he was scheduled to receive unemployment. I keep asking did he get his card yet that contained it...of course his answer was no until he said he had to get his mail from his mom. So he got his mail and got the card...
  2. Strip Club, Lies, Lost Trust - need advice and perspectie

    General Relationship Discussion
    The story that’s eating up my mental downtime. I’ll start with the nutshell version in first paragraph in case you don't want to read the entirely of details below, I appreciate any input! I am 45, husband is 2 years younger. We are on second marriages after being divorced about 7 and 10 years...
  3. Rebuilding Confidence (and maybe trust)

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am a long-time lurker and used to be a semi-regular poster when I was married, but I have created a new account because I don't want my new posts associated with the old account. Because my how things have changed. I am now divorced and dating a new guy. He's 39. I'm 42. We have been together...
  4. Am I in trouble with this man?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I have never posted online before. I am a 49 year old woman who is married to a 51 year old man for 9 months. We started our relationship 2 1/2 years ago while we were both ending other marriages. We were all love and thrills, excitement about how we were soulmates and magical dreams. The...
  5. Wife contacting ex-lover

    Coping with Infidelity
    Dear all, desperate/grateful for advice. Wife has close friend, used to be "with benefits" before we met, to whom she has contact through all 20 years of our relationship. This guy in the initial 2 years refused to acknowledge my presence, froze me out, my wife acted like nothing was wrong. 2...
  6. Is what my Husband did cheating?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I wanted to share my story and get some perspective and opinions on my situation. My husband and I have been married for almost 6 years and together for 10 years. My trust in him has always been infallible when it comes to cheating and inappropriate behavior with other women. Then, my husband...
  7. Worst Movie About Cheating I Have Ever Seen

    Coping with Infidelity
    If you have Netflix avoid this movie: Leaving Horrible, horrible pro-adultery movie that depicts a wife who leaves her husband for a handyman, then kills her husband because he had the audacity to kick her out and make them pay for their affair. Watch Leaving Online | Netflix :mad:
  8. Texting his ex when i moved to be with him

    Coping with Infidelity
    Sorry guys, I typed this in before but it hasnt shown up. To put it as briefly as possible. My partner and I were in mostly a distance relationship for nearly 3 years. I moved over to another country to be with him 5 months ago, we were so much in love. It was stressful living with someone again...
  9. Forgive cheating before the wedding?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello Everybody, (First of all I'm sorry for any errors in my writing, but english isn't my first language) I'm 32 years old and my wife is 30, we got married 6 years ago and we have a 4 years old beautiful son. Before we married we were dating for 12 years (I know, it's an eternity). 3 years...
  10. Plenty of Fish Profile

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hey All, It's been about a month since I posted. I just don't get it. After being together about 14 years, married six and a half I never thought I'd have to deal with this s#%#. Last month I found out he had been sexting with someone we both know. He was apologetic, ended it immediately...
  11. Wife spent 20k set aside for a business

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    I've been married about 6 years with 5 children; 4 between my wife and I and 1 step-daughter. (9yrs, 4yrs, 2yrs, 1yr, 3 months) We have 4 children at 4 yrs and under. I run a pharmacy and am starting the process of opening another one. I've been setting aside a lot of cash to assist in...
  12. Name Says It All

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been married about 5 years to a mid 40's man who grew up in Europe. We agreed at start of relationship that we didn't want to go in to past details as number of partner etc. One issue I did bring to his attention at the start of our dating was that I had a 'recreational' video that I made...
  13. I Can't Take It Anymore. Help Please!

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married almost 11 years. I am African American and my husband is from India. First off, he only married me to remain in the U.S. Even after knowing this, we stayed married, had children, etc. We are not compatible. He has physically abused me in the past, as well as emotional and...
  14. My first actual lesbian relationship

    Relationships and Addiction
    Hello guys, We I met this girl almost two years ago (I'm female) she came up to me one day in class and asked for my number to share a book sometime and I didn't know her. So after class was over she started texting me and somehow I kinda figured she was gay too. Later that day she came to my...
  15. Feeling really hurt by wife's comments

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I'm here to seek some impartial advice. I'm married 25 years and the one relatively constant source of angst in my marriage over the last ~15 years is that we have mismatched libidos. We've been to counselling on that topic, but it was a very uncomfortable topic. My wife has the lower...
  16. On betrayal

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I'm 8 months out from dday, D is final 2/26. There's still pain and until recently I thought it was missing her and our life together, family etc. But I've been thinking deeply about the 18 years we were married, and in most respects it was not very satisfying, emotionally or physically. I...
  17. big blow out-what do i do now

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    :( So, there's a possibility my nine week separated partner is having and EA?PA with my sister-in-law. (my brothers wife) Three weeks after he left, she wanted out of her marriage too. My brother works away and has been sending letters and love from across the world, trying to salvage his dying...
  18. Where is the line crossed?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married to my husband for a few years now. We have had our ups and downs like any couple, and one thing we actually are on the same page about is that when it's good it's really good and when it's bad it can get really bad. I know that everyone needs someone else to confide in...
  19. New here, dealing with insecurity... need advice.

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I are semi-newlyweds, only married less than a year. Before we got married, we lived together for about a year. I honestly did believe that this man was my Mr Perfect. He's smart, funny, good looking, sensitive, caring and he takes care of me and my kids (from a previous...
  20. He disrespects me, what to do?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I feel my fiance constantly disrespects me. At the beginning of our relationship he began talking innappropriately about his ex's. I was upfront and asked him to stop and expressed how it hurt me, he apologized and it seemed like he understood. However it became a repeative issue in our...
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