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  1. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I feel story and context are so important, but unless I want this post to be a four hour read, I have to get to the point - semi quick... So, quick backstory... My husband and I have been together for 26 years. We were always "that" couple. We never fought. Only had small disagreements which...
  2. Coping with Infidelity
    61d87d5e49fd9b241da5828f_DST_A_Clinical_Model_Jan_2022.pdf (webflow.com) There is so much obvious, and yet never put together in one place, an attempt to better understand both the mechanisms and effects of betrayal on the betrayed. It's not heavy psycho-babble; just 11 pages of pretty easy...
  3. Coping with Infidelity
    I've been married for almost 21 years to my best friend. I've thought we were soul mates. I've had two D days in that time. Once just over 3 years ago and once 2 months ago. The one 3 years ago was a shocker. The one 2 months ago has me questioning my entire marriage and sanity. A brief...
  4. Considering Divorce or Separation
    “We would have killed each other, wouldn’t we?” These words were spoken by my college girlfriend, best friend and wife of 48 years - and my world came crashing down. Even though I suspected what she meant, I calmly asked “Who are you talking about?” The answer was a knife in my heart – “Pat B. –...
  5. General Relationship Discussions
    I am feeling trapped and defeated. About a year and a half ago I discovered my husband had been spending thousands of dollars on an online war game (played on his phone). I found the game reciepts which amounted to more than $10,000 over the course of about 8 months. I freaked out (inwardly) as...
  6. General Relationship Discussions
    My husband had been recently involved in an emotional affair with someone on Instagram . While I thought it was only a one time DM turned out to be more and that he’s been “ casually” so her says talking to her . the woman is not really very pretty in my opinion but she did get what seems like a...
  7. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone, I've just joined this site for some external advice that isn't family or friends. I will try to cut to the chase but there is a lot to this issue, but I've just discovered something today that's brought everything to the forefront (again), and I'm trying to determine whether I am...
  8. The Ladies' Lounge
    So I have an issue with my husband. Ok so he was furloughed from his job so he was scheduled to receive unemployment. I keep asking did he get his card yet that contained it...of course his answer was no until he said he had to get his mail from his mom. So he got his mail and got the card...
  9. General Relationship Discussions
    The story that’s eating up my mental downtime. I’ll start with the nutshell version in first paragraph in case you don't want to read the entirely of details below, I appreciate any input! I am 45, husband is 2 years younger. We are on second marriages after being divorced about 7 and 10 years...
  10. General Relationship Discussions
    I am a long-time lurker and used to be a semi-regular poster when I was married, but I have created a new account because I don't want my new posts associated with the old account. Because my how things have changed. I am now divorced and dating a new guy. He's 39. I'm 42. We have been together...
  11. The Ladies' Lounge
    I have never posted online before. I am a 49 year old woman who is married to a 51 year old man for 9 months. We started our relationship 2 1/2 years ago while we were both ending other marriages. We were all love and thrills, excitement about how we were soulmates and magical dreams. The...
  12. Coping with Infidelity
    Dear all, desperate/grateful for advice. Wife has close friend, used to be "with benefits" before we met, to whom she has contact through all 20 years of our relationship. This guy in the initial 2 years refused to acknowledge my presence, froze me out, my wife acted like nothing was wrong. 2...
  13. Coping with Infidelity
    I wanted to share my story and get some perspective and opinions on my situation. My husband and I have been married for almost 6 years and together for 10 years. My trust in him has always been infallible when it comes to cheating and inappropriate behavior with other women. Then, my husband...
  14. Coping with Infidelity
    If you have Netflix avoid this movie: Leaving Horrible, horrible pro-adultery movie that depicts a wife who leaves her husband for a handyman, then kills her husband because he had the audacity to kick her out and make them pay for their affair. Watch Leaving Online | Netflix :mad:
  15. Coping with Infidelity
    Sorry guys, I typed this in before but it hasnt shown up. To put it as briefly as possible. My partner and I were in mostly a distance relationship for nearly 3 years. I moved over to another country to be with him 5 months ago, we were so much in love. It was stressful living with someone again...
  16. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello Everybody, (First of all I'm sorry for any errors in my writing, but english isn't my first language) I'm 32 years old and my wife is 30, we got married 6 years ago and we have a 4 years old beautiful son. Before we married we were dating for 12 years (I know, it's an eternity). 3 years...
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