I vowed until death do us part. I meant it, but I feel like he didn't. We are wonderful together until he comes home from work in a horrible mood. Let me start by telling our story. I am 23 and we were married when I was 20. He is 29. I always figured it would be great being with someone older...

My first question would be why would you stay? If you have younger kids, I understand. But because you love her/him... Seriously, they sure didn't care about you while being in bed with another! My second question would be how do you accept such an unacceptable betrayal? What can you possibly...

I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT MY SITUATION. I will accept your advice and your judgement equally so please be honest, because it is pretty messed up... My husband cheated on me after 11 years of marriage. For 3 years he endured the symptoms of my recently diagnosed Bipolar disorder...

I have other post under S4E and Struggling4ever that explain my long painful story, but as a short background, after 20 years of marriage, my wife had an ongoing affair with my best friend about 12 years ago. I found out when I found they were away on a cruise together. It ended abruptly and we...

A few days ago my wife confessed to me that she had a sexual encounter with my best friend while on a trip. She told me that they kissed and touched for over 2 hours in the next room. She claims that he didn't penetrate her with his penis, but he did use the finger, I don't know if its true or...

One of my smartest and most earnest friends passed away two days ago. He was one of my first guy friends, my first kiss... We have been friends since I was 12 and I'm now 25. So needless to say he had a huge impact on my life. When I think about how drastically my life would be different without...

After deleting, I'm back with my story…update to follow, My wife had an affair 11 yrs ago. I found out when she went on a cruise with her sisters and I called the cruise line to send flowers. When they said my wife wasn't registered, they asked if she was registered under another name. A voice...

Bullet points, because they help me to not be so verbose: June: Husband said things to OW like “you’re my #1 fan”, “when you’re hurting it feels like it’s happening to me”, “that’s what I love about you” which devastated me because there were many problems I toughed out for 20 years (financial...

Hello! I am new to this website. And I am in desperate need of help. A few years ago I fell for my best friend and it ruined our friendship because she didn't feel the same way. The next year I moved on with my life and stopped talking to her. When I was sure that I could handle being her...

My husband of 8 years (anniversary was yesterday - SAD day) and I have been separated for 8 months. He was going through a mid-life crisis or depression and really wasn't himself. It was his decision to leave and within a month he was ready for a divorce. I could see this was a different...

I've been with my husband for 7 years now, married for 2. We recently relocated to another state, 2000 miles from our families. I was struggling to make friends, and finally brought one home to hang out. She is a wonderful friend to me. My husband is in the military, he had his date to ship out...

Hi... A friend of a friend was recently talking about marrying her gay best friend. She has children and is divorced, and really wants to marry him - they love each other, just not in a sexual way. She says it's a great way to provide financial and emotional support to her and her children...

I know the title reads as if i am in a situation to choose between my bf or best friend, tough but not as bad as when they are the same person. I met my boyfriend a bit less than two years ago and we developed a loving relationship. But other things in life weren't right, to make story short...