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  1. My husband's face changed and I don't like it

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi everyone. I've been married 8 months, with my husband for 3 1/2 years, I'm 33, he's 36. I love my husband. He's an amazing man. Here's the problem...I don't like the way his face looks anymore. To be blunt, his face has gotten fat. He always had a small chin and the extra pounds have made...
  2. Questionnaire On Relationships - Male Participants Needed For Dissertation Topic!!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hey everyone!! If you are a guy with sexual and relationship experience aged 18 or over, please participate in this exciting study!! My dissertation examines personality and mate choice! 100 participants are needed, so I would really much appreciate if you could take part!! Thank you...
  3. Is it me overracting?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello everyone! I am new here, I've been reading for weeks but today I decided to join. Here is "my thing" I've been married for almost 13 years to a very quiet and reserved man, he loves me and he is a good father to our 2 kids (7 and 4), he used to work part-time and now he has a full time job...
  4. well hello there

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Married, happy, not happy, puzzled, amazed, mystified, annoyed, grateful, angry......w....t.....h? Hoping to make sense of it all and appreciate being able to read everyone's posts.
  5. Am I ready for Dating?

    Life After Divorce
    I have been divorced for 2 ½ years. My XWW had been cheating on me for the last 2 years of our marriage. I joined one of the popular OLD sites 6 months after the D was final. I went on a few dates but I soon realized that I wasn't ready for dating and didn't renew my membership. I did not date...
  6. Beautiful vs Handsome?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Say a h tells his w she is beautiful many times in person and via texts and emails but she never tells him he is handsome. She says love you back but never he has handsome. This may sound childish and stupid but should the husband be concerned? He has always been considered attractive. What...
  7. Men: Does Your Wife Still Find You Sexually/Physically Attractive?

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Do you think your wife still finds you, on a purely physical and sexual level, attractive? Does she still give you those lustful eyes? Does she still run her hands across your body? Does she still crave your c0ck? Does she still give you verbal compliments about your looks? If so, do you...
  8. Newlywed and Miserable

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have been married for about a year and a half, after dating for the 4 years prior. I am 24 and he is 25 and we have both only dated each other. I am feeling so conflicted and I just want to hear what others have done in similar situations. I had serious doubts about our...
  9. Women look at me?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Woman have been looking at me the past few days while shopping. I used to be a nice looking guy. I hope I still am. I just worry they are looking at me for the wrong reasons. My wife says I look angry all the time. She is right. Well, no, he's not right. I only look angry some of the time. So...
  10. Am I really paranoid or intuitive?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband has expressed an innocent enough sort of "respect" and "admiration" for this woman at our children's school a couple of years ago. Since then our families have become closer. Although I don't think she wants to necessarily be with my husband, I do think that she has a certain way of...
  11. Ex Wife May still be attracted to me

    Sex in Marriage
    So even though we've been divorced for a while I get the feeling she still has some physical attraction. Granted our divorce was very amicable and we are still good friends till this day, we will forever remain in each others lives cause we have to kids together. I'm with the kids very often and...
  12. Aging and sex priorities - need older male advice

    The Men's Clubhouse
    I'm a young and and am wondering how things will pan out as I age from a sexual desire perspective. I have a 2 questions: As men age, does the pursuit of sex continue to influence their behaviour toward attractive women as much as it does when they are young? Do all men interact with attractive...
  13. How to cope with young attractive oppsite-sex friends..

    General Relationship Discussion
    I recently separated from my boyfriend due to jealousy and insecurity. I wonder if some of the discomfort I felt in the relationship was evolutionary adaptive- alerting me to potential mate poaching- or just a lack of self-confidence. My boyfriend is a professor with a research lab. Almost all...
  14. Dating WAY Outside the Box (esp. Wealthy Men)

    General Relationship Discussion
    aaarrrggghhh.... crap.... I've skimmed a few posts on this topic and those that really jumped out at me included variations of "rich guys are evil, self-centered, etc."... This is a huge red flag but I'm not easy swayed by stereotypes yet I am logical. I can see the data to support the...
  15. Does she want me?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi Everyone Looking through some of the posts on here I can see that a lot of people are in a similar situation to mine; none the less I'd like to get some opinions, just to make sure that I am not being an ass. So my wife and I have been married for 10years, we have two lovely kids and on the...
  16. Wife can't wrap mind around sex

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife and I have been together for five years and married for three. We are in out mid-twenties and don't have any kids. Lately, she has been avoiding sex like the plague for some reason. Before our marriage and during the first year, sex happened several times a week. Now, its maybe once...
  17. choosing not to love her anymore

    The Men's Clubhouse
    We have been together now for over 20 years. Dated through high-school.. She was always a little heavy, and every year its the same or worse. I'm thinking in the 225lb range. She is short so this does not make it proportional. I've always hinted that I wish she was healthy and always tried...
  18. wife has lost physical attraction of me but not others

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I am 36 today and my wife of 9yrs (+8yrs) admits to losing her attraction / desire for me, however can get the emotional arousal from other men. Not to sound conceded, but by no definition am I unattractive. She feels a sensation from new attention (men) that she no longer gets from...
  19. Desperately need help. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Me and my wife have only been married a little over a year now. We had our first child 9 months ago. She recently started acting strange and when I tried to address it she denied anything being wrong. Then a few weeks ago i found messages on her phone between her and another guy. As I confronted...
  20. He is no longer physically attracted to me...

    Sex in Marriage
    This has been a rough past two and half years for me because I have been the biggest I have ever been the past two and half years. I am only 21 years old, and I am miserable... The biggest reason is that my husband is no longer physically attracted to me. I know he loves me, I really do know...
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