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  1. Boyfriend staying distant for days after arguments.....

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello , Thank you for reading. I am a woman in my 30's.. I have been in a relationship with a man for 4 years. Every time we argue -by "argue" i don't mean screaming, just having different views on something and talking about it- he becomes distant and stays that way for days... (longest...
  2. I feel like our marriage is failing, any advice appreciated

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  3. Sometimes I can't stand my wife

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everyone, Im having troubles loving my wife, but first I'll tell you a little something about us. We are both 31 years old and have been together now for 7 years and married for 1 year and 5 months. We have Recently had the most amazing experience giving birth to our son, he's 3...
  4. Years of failed communication

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'm not new to Talk about Marriage; was on here years ago, but haven't posted in a while. Hello everyone and happy new year! I wanted to check with the group to get some tips and strategies for communicating better with my wife. I won't go into all of our marital history, but we've been married...
  5. Marriage falling apart, what can I do?

    General Relationship Discussion
    TL;DR: I'm jobless in an unhappy marriage in a foreign country without almost any friends, I think my husband suffers from some spectrum of Asperger's syndrome making him insensitive and indifferent, unable to understand my emotional needs, and I'm feeling frustrated and helpless, and I need...
  6. Husband wants divorce after only two months

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    A brief history...my husband (41, twice divorced, 4 kids) and I (29, never married) were together for about 6 months before we got engaged. About two months after we were engaged he broke up with me. His reasoning was that he was tired of the petty fights we were having frequently. He had said I...
  7. My husband "loves" and "Tolerates" me

    General Relationship Discussion
    Okay so... I have been working at my grandpas for three weeks and my mom got shingles while she was in Hawaii. She, myself and my aunt all switch days though my aunt only stays three days because she does not take very good care of grandpa. Somehow my husband and I got in this argument where...
  8. Communicating Emotional Immaturity to my spouse

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello All, I'm so glad I found this site. I'm a new member and looking for some advice. The advice I am looking for is how to communicate to my husband when he is being emotionally immature without triggering him flying off the handle and ways I can help him mature emotionally. To provide a...
  9. Arguments escalate and spiral out of control...

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'm not sure this is the correct forum, I'm new so if it needs to move I'll move it. Also, this is going to be a WALL of text, so thanks for slugging through it. To give you a little background on me (and because I think it has something to do with all of this), I am wildly ADD. I do have...
  10. Depression and relationships

    General Relationship Discussion
    My partner suffers with depression that makes him go through spells of being very down/ unmotivated and unwilling to leave the house. When depressed he gets angry and starts explosive arguments with me for little or no reason. He says he doesn’t mean to/ can’t stop/ doesn’t even realise he’s...
  11. Wife wants a divorce after nightout with female colleagues

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I have been married for 3 years to my wife. My wife is a housewife & is very beautiful , loving ,caring , compassionate, romantic but gets very emotional over small petty issues. I have a 9am to 8am (at times I work till 9pm or 10pm) job 5 days a week (sometimes I go in on weekends)...
  12. We persevered through the tough times

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    My wife is the love of my life. She's the most beautiful person I have ever met. This June will make 32 years and if you'd have known us during the first 10 years you'd probably be amazed at that. We used to fight so much it seemed we couldn't even have a conversation without it turning into an...
  13. Why do women always try to start silly arguments?

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 years we are deeply i love and we're in the advanced stages of our relationship because Im planning to propose. Yesterday I decided to go out with my boy to watch a football game ''Real vs Barca'(literally the biggest football game in the world)...
  14. How to have fewer arguments about money

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    Hello All, Here are a few tips to help limit financial arguments with your significant other. 1) Re-establish trust by following through on your promises. Trust is lost overtime and defaulting on numerous small promises add up. Don't fool yourself into believing that breaking small...
  15. How to stop arguments in front of the children

    Self-Help Marriage & Relationship Programs
    My questions really is how to stop arguments, with my wife, in front of our young children without being a pushover. My wife has realised that I am particularly worried about them having to hear the shouting and swearing and I often ask her to continue with the argument away from them or at...
  16. Anger Issues Troubling Our Marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi everyone, I'm new here but I'm hoping you all can help me with something that's really been bothering me. I've had anger issues since I was a teenager. This is something I've been aware of for many years and have taken various avenues toward fixing. I've gone to a counselor in the past and...
  17. Just Married! Lots of issues. Want this to work

    General Relationship Discussion
    We got married in January this year, and we've had issues since. We had a year to know each other, and the same issues kept propping up. That I was insecure about her friends... her ex. Her ex who is now married, keeps calling upto 2-3 times a day. Her other guy friends, call upto 7-10 times a...
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