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  1. I accidentally called him a name...

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everyone, This is my first time to this forum. I am so glad that I found this site. For the past couple of days, I have felt overwhelmed, and I desperately need to vent and hopefully get some advice. So, this is my story. I have been married to my husband for a little over a year...
  2. Talking Things to Death?

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    In terms of getting upset and angry about things my husband and I greatly vary. I am more passive and wait until I feel calm before I make a decision on what to do or what to say if a person was the cause. My husband has the tendency to easily get angry and when he does it is a predictable...
  3. All Day fight

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I would really appreciate feedback about this incident, because frankly it makes no sense to me. We had been having discussions for awhile about my husband having ex girlfriends on his FB friends list. While I understood from him that he doesn't even communicate with them, beyond an occasional...
  4. Exhusband found my private pictures on our sons Pad, it totally escalated! What now?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    (sorry if long and/or spelling mistakes! not my native tongue!) We've been divorced for over two years now. We share custody, about 40/60 percent, my son[6y/o] is with me a little more often. The divorce was messy, but the court ordered mediation worked wonders, and now we are even able to...
  5. Am I wrong for thinking that my wife is being very disrespectful to me?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi all, I am a 35 year old man married to my wife for 8 years. We have two beautiful little girls ages 7 and 4. Our relationship is very loving, we both believe we are each others soul mates, well, at least I do. My wife says she loves me blindly and I truly do feel loved by her. We are both in...
  6. Advice Needed for argument over friends

    General Relationship Discussion
    I need some advice desperately. My husband and I keep having the same argument and I need to know if I have any right to speak up about what I feel like is an insulting disregard for privacy. Some quick backstory. I have been married for 3.5 years and have been living with my husband for a...
  7. Anger, confrontation issues, and possible separation

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife and I have been going through many problems. She admits that its not the mistakes that I make but the way I deal with resolving these mistakes and the way I handle her anger/disappointment/frustration that takes her over the edge. She gets to the point where she starts screaming, says...
  8. How do you end a reoccurring argument?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Does anyone else have that never-ending, reoccurring argument that you just cannot seem to settle? We have a good marriage in all ways possible, but about once a month (though it seems more frequent lately), we have an argument about whether or not i do enough. I think I do way more than my...
  9. Wife will not open up or discuss things

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am confused and not sure how to address this---Wife and I have been married for ~10 years and have two children together. She is a good person, good mom, has lots of nice friends. I love her and have no problem expressing myself to her, but rarely does she express herself to me. I try to...
  10. My ignoring PROBLEM with DH...NEED advice!

    General Relationship Discussion
    (Deep breath) Ok, I have been with my DH for 5 years. (dating 4 married 1) (we don't live together yet we are married religiously ) I love him and you can never be too sure that a person can be the ONE** but that doesn't matter I want him to be the one. We do not communicate great at all. I'm...
  11. Argumentative, Controlling, and Lazy

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    We have been married for about 10 years now. We live in a nice home, we are both pretty successful, and we have great kids. The negative traits were visible a long time ago, but they have gotten worse every year. It breaks my heart what they would have to go through if we sere to split, but I...
  12. How to move past a bad argument

    General Relationship Discussion
    I had a really awful argument with my wife yesterday. While I'm quite certain that "Jill" was attempting to instigate a response from me with sarcasm, mimicking, disregarding my polite request, and disregarding my request to stop talking to me (while I was moving my stuff into another room to...
  13. I need some advice...at the end of my rope.

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been friends with my newlywed husband of 11 years, of which, 8 of them were platonic. He and I got together 3 years ago, and he left me because of my family and not being over another woman who had cheated on him. I was devastated; I was so in love with him. He and I remained distant...
  14. Anyone mind giving me some advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    Ok so heres the situation. I have this friend of my (she's a girl), we've known each other for well over a year now, she knows im in love with her and she seems to accept that. Recently she has been starting agruments for smallest things!! and gets mad at me when i do something wrong but the...
  15. On the same page

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, I'm not married but have been in a long term relationship for almost four years now. My boyfriend and I have been having these little "arguments" lately too. They can be so ridiculous and I feel like I'm being nit-picked. Something simple, for example, He went into the bathroom to get ready...
  16. Beta male needs help becoming Alpha male B4 the impending sex argument

    Sex in Marriage
    If anyone wants background, my other thread is the "sex with her is like pulling teeth" thread, but thanks to all who have given their advice. You can find it here if you want: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/sex-marriage/11121-totally-unaffectionate-wife-sex-like-pulling-teeth-her.html I think one...
  17. Terminally Ill Mother

    Dealing with Grief and Loss
    My mother-in-law is terminally ill with Stage 4 breast cancer that has moved to her bones as well. She has a relatively good quality of life for the time being, however the end is inevitable. My problem is that my husband has started taking his anger about her situation out on me - picking...
  18. What should i DO!!?? PLEASE HELP!!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Ok so i know im a little young to be married but me and my wife have been married for about 5 months. We met in the 2nd grade so its not like i dont know her at all. Anywhos to get the situation, every time she is on her period she completely changes to a violent person. Im a very calm person so...
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