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  1. Just need the tension to go away.

    General Relationship Discussion
    So.. I imagine it would be difficult to post a question here and get any meaningful advice, as no stranger can know the history of a relationship. This will probably be very disjointed. I guess I could preface this post with, I'm a normal flawed human being just like everyone else and...
  2. Husband of an angry unhappy wife..advice wanted

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi I'm the husband of an angry woman who just doesn't seem to love me, and I don't know what to do. We've been married 8 years, and have two kids in private school (both doing well). We got together very quickly (too quickly?) and married after she became pregnant. On the surface, we're...
  3. Letting Go of Anger

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi all, My husband and I have separated again (married for 12 years, 2 young children), but are still living together while we sort out finances. I have a couple of posts on TAM about our issues. Quick background - He had an EA 2.5 years ago with a coworker. We separated for three months...
  4. I resent my husband for taking me for granted

    General Relationship Discussion
    I resent my husband for taking me for granted....I have 2 kids...I work on a full time job. Pay half of the bills but do everything at home....take care of the kids, cooking, cleaning, taking out garbage even calling the handyman if anything is broken. I am tired doing everything. He doesn't do...
  5. Marriage falling apart, what can I do?

    General Relationship Discussion
    TL;DR: I'm jobless in an unhappy marriage in a foreign country without almost any friends, I think my husband suffers from some spectrum of Asperger's syndrome making him insensitive and indifferent, unable to understand my emotional needs, and I'm feeling frustrated and helpless, and I need...
  6. Reacting to emotional spouse with anger.

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'm at the end of my rope. I would appreciate input from both men and women on this. If I am doing something wrong, I would like to know! Background: My husband and I have been together for over 8 years, and married for almost 2. We are expecting a baby in 4 months. I know that pregnancy...
  7. Talking Things to Death?

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    In terms of getting upset and angry about things my husband and I greatly vary. I am more passive and wait until I feel calm before I make a decision on what to do or what to say if a person was the cause. My husband has the tendency to easily get angry and when he does it is a predictable...
  8. Wife sexual past and pressent

    Sex in Marriage
    I think you heard a lot about men with problems regarding their wife’s sexual past but can I tell you mine and ask if you can maybe tell me why I feel the way I do and why do this feelings come and go. Me and my wife grew up in the same little town, Fist time I noted my wife were at a fair she...
  9. Husband hits and throws things when angry

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi everyone! I posted last summer about some issues with my husband and in-laws that came up and I really appreciated your insight and advice!! So first of all, a way too long, overdue THANK YOU for all your help!! Unfortunately, another issue has reared its ugly head yet again and I am floored...
  10. Wife has Hashimoto's / hypothyroid....

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    Hey folks. Long time lurker but first time poster. Going to try and not write a one paragraph novel here describing our situation cause those are so hard to read. Hopefully bullet style will make it easier for anyone who would like to respond. I'll make the first post short and sweet and I can...
  11. Trial separation - How much hope is there in this?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    :crying: My husband and I plan a trial separation of three months, starting later this month. I will be the one moving out (some details in my profile). Originally, I was raging and suggested trial separation in anger, "Who is going to move out?" But after long convoluted discussion, he took it...
  12. Hate him flirting...with me.

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Met up with my estranged husband today over coffee to discuss our son's birthday (separated about 3 months now). He kept flirting and asking when we could go out. I have a really hard time keeping my temper, because it seems like he's serious. He says he's lost without me, etc, and while I feel...
  13. My husband's temper and depression

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My husband and I have been married for 7 years, together for 13. We have an amazing two year old daughter. He has always had a temper. Anger is an issue in his family and he grew up with it. He has made great strides in improving how he deals with situations. But, over the past two years...
  14. Need Feedback: Why Is He So Angry With Me?

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I'm writing this while undergoing the silent treatment for about the 5th time in as many months. We are in our 50's second marriage for both. His ex was an alcoholic and this was a factor in their divorce. He states he really has no use for his parents. Friday: It's his birthday. He...
  15. Depression and relationships

    General Relationship Discussion
    My partner suffers with depression that makes him go through spells of being very down/ unmotivated and unwilling to leave the house. When depressed he gets angry and starts explosive arguments with me for little or no reason. He says he doesn’t mean to/ can’t stop/ doesn’t even realise he’s...
  16. Do I have a right to be hurt?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello If you're curious about my complete story you may read my past posts. It has been a long time since I've posted. Things have been very good for a while now (as good as we'll get I believe) but i can't understand what happened last night and I'm trying to. My wife has a habit of if she...
  17. I've Checked Out

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been married to a very kind person for almost 7 years. He's a great person, very generous, and has a huge heart. But when we're at home (away from everyone), he turns into a person that I did not really know before we got married. See, he has anger issues and he gets frustrated often. So...
  18. venting - any advice/opinions welcome! tell me if I am out of line.

    General Relationship Discussion
    When my teenagers are in there room which is all the time, they keep the door closed because they don't want the dogs in their room. We have always just opened the door and walked in. Nobody has ever complained about it. Everybody knows when they are in their changing so you just respect that...
  19. My husbands anger

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I am 26 and my husband is in the military . We have been married for about two years and his anger is getting worse and worse. At first it was little things and now it is everything and the words are louder crueler and meaner than ever. For example this past week every morning our baby...
  20. My EA has devastated all of us; how to get healthy from here

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hubs and I have been married for 15+ years. We have two beautiful kids 4 and 6. After my second child my husband became very cold and distant. He was severely depressed and angry. His interaction with me was in grunts and f* this and f* that (including in front of the children). I’ve...
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