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  1. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone, this might become a long one. So my husband and father of our two young children (now 3 and 5) chose last summer to apply for separation. We’ve had many problems for years, daily arguments, lots of resentments. I had resentment due to not feeling seen, loved, appreciated. Did so...
  2. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I finally left my drunk ex last December 21. On that day he had been drunk for 8 days straight and fell down the stairs. I called an ambulance because he was bleeding profusely. The first responders were police officer who arrested me because, in his drunk state, he said I pushed him down the...
  3. General Relationship Discussions
    When my husband gets mad he becomes verbally abusive and shouts things that are untrue and very hurtful. I We just started couples therapy. I have a lot of repressed anger towards him for some of the things he has said when he's angry and I don't know how I'll get over that, meanwhile he bought...
  4. Dealing with Grief and Loss
    I was with the love of my life. Some trials and tribulations happened connected to Childhood trauma. I begged for people to be with me as I worked through this because I was always there for everyone else but no one would help. My life was falling apart and everyone just turned the other way. I...
  5. General Relationship Discussions
    So.. I imagine it would be difficult to post a question here and get any meaningful advice, as no stranger can know the history of a relationship. This will probably be very disjointed. I guess I could preface this post with, I'm a normal flawed human being just like everyone else and...
  6. General Relationship Discussions
    Hi I'm the husband of an angry woman who just doesn't seem to love me, and I don't know what to do. We've been married 8 years, and have two kids in private school (both doing well). We got together very quickly (too quickly?) and married after she became pregnant. On the surface, we're...
  7. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi all, My husband and I have separated again (married for 12 years, 2 young children), but are still living together while we sort out finances. I have a couple of posts on TAM about our issues. Quick background - He had an EA 2.5 years ago with a coworker. We separated for three months...
  8. General Relationship Discussions
    I resent my husband for taking me for granted....I have 2 kids...I work on a full time job. Pay half of the bills but do everything at home....take care of the kids, cooking, cleaning, taking out garbage even calling the handyman if anything is broken. I am tired doing everything. He doesn't do...
  9. General Relationship Discussions
    TL;DR: I'm jobless in an unhappy marriage in a foreign country without almost any friends, I think my husband suffers from some spectrum of Asperger's syndrome making him insensitive and indifferent, unable to understand my emotional needs, and I'm feeling frustrated and helpless, and I need...
  10. General Relationship Discussions
    I'm at the end of my rope. I would appreciate input from both men and women on this. If I am doing something wrong, I would like to know! Background: My husband and I have been together for over 8 years, and married for almost 2. We are expecting a baby in 4 months. I know that pregnancy...
  11. Long Term Success in Marriage
    In terms of getting upset and angry about things my husband and I greatly vary. I am more passive and wait until I feel calm before I make a decision on what to do or what to say if a person was the cause. My husband has the tendency to easily get angry and when he does it is a predictable...
  12. Sex in Marriage
    I think you heard a lot about men with problems regarding their wife’s sexual past but can I tell you mine and ask if you can maybe tell me why I feel the way I do and why do this feelings come and go. Me and my wife grew up in the same little town, Fist time I noted my wife were at a fair she...
  13. General Relationship Discussions
    Hi everyone! I posted last summer about some issues with my husband and in-laws that came up and I really appreciated your insight and advice!! So first of all, a way too long, overdue THANK YOU for all your help!! Unfortunately, another issue has reared its ugly head yet again and I am floored...
  14. Physical & Mental Health Issues
    Hey folks. Long time lurker but first time poster. Going to try and not write a one paragraph novel here describing our situation cause those are so hard to read. Hopefully bullet style will make it easier for anyone who would like to respond. I'll make the first post short and sweet and I can...
  15. Considering Divorce or Separation
    :crying: My husband and I plan a trial separation of three months, starting later this month. I will be the one moving out (some details in my profile). Originally, I was raging and suggested trial separation in anger, "Who is going to move out?" But after long convoluted discussion, he took it...
  16. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Met up with my estranged husband today over coffee to discuss our son's birthday (separated about 3 months now). He kept flirting and asking when we could go out. I have a really hard time keeping my temper, because it seems like he's serious. He says he's lost without me, etc, and while I feel...
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