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  1. I made a mistake

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for 6 months, and we dated for 6 years before we got married. We have always been 100% faithful and honest with each other and he is my best friend. I want to give a little background but please know that I am not making excuses for anything I've done. For the...
  2. Unwillngly separated wife took kids need adv

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I apologize for the length of this post but I want to put as many details here because I really need help. Have been married 9 yrs. W and I are both alcoholics, I am many years sober. We met 12y ago at a sober camping trip, dated, moved in and married. We agreed that it would be a sober...
  3. I'm new and I don't know how my perfect life fell apart

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    In 2014 I got engaged and married my long time sweetheart. We were blissful and happy. Like the kind of mushy stuff everyone envies and says makes them sick, but really they are just jealous of the happiness they perceive. While we were engaged he lost his job, started drinking too much, but...
  4. Is my wife an Alcoholic or am I just a bad husband?

    Relationships and Addiction
    For the past 5 years my wife has been drinking excessively once every few months. Almost every time she drinks to much she turns into a person who hates me. Last night was another one of those nights. She says things like "I want nothing to do with you" several times. She gets very loud and...
  5. Daughter of a Depressed Alcoholic and a Controlling Cheater

    Relationships and Addiction
    Alllllright. Here I am, not knowing who to talk to really about this and I suppose I may need to get it off my chest. Or maybe I'm looking for some advice, I don't know. I just want third party thoughts. A little about me: I'm turning 22 soon and am graduating college, going onto graduate...
  6. Making things right without a clear apology?

    Reconciliation
    We were both in the wrong many times; however after he got physical one too many times, I moved myself and the kids out of our home, into an apartment. I left behind most of the little comforts, like a computer (I'm a graphic designer), cable/any TV other than DVDs, a way to play any music other...
  7. He cheated on me, in our house, while I was there

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am not sure what to do. My husband of almost 10 years just cheated on me. He went out with a friend, got really drunk, brought home some women they met who had the same music interests to "show them my husband's collection." (My husband and his friend are fanatical about music.) I was...
  8. Problems Not Going Away - Long Post

    General Relationship Discussion
    To fully explain, I need to start at the beginning, so I will go ahead and apologize for this being so lengthy. I had a long term boyfriend when I was in high school who was no good. He cheated, had a drug problem, would disappear for days at a time, and even hit me once. He was my first love...
  9. Separating For Health Reasons, & To Save Marriage

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm going to break this down. Met guy, dated a year, married guy, honey moon found out he was abusive, came back from honey moon and discovered I was pregnant. His contract ran out 1 week after baby born, refused to look for a job for 9 months, 1 month after baby was born I was diagnosed with...
  10. Wife left after I got sober

    Relationships and Addiction
    I was a drunk for the 20 years we have been together, and it wasn't pretty. After several stints in rehab I finally got sober 6 months ago. Last week she asked me to leave, saying she needed space, she loved me but wasn't sure she was in love with me, that I had been a terrible father and...
  11. How to drink less in 2012

    General Relationship Discussion
    How do you plan to reduce drinking alcohol this 2012?
  12. The road to recovery.. kind of?

    Relationships and Addiction
    It seems like some people here have a great understanding of addiction and the problems it can cause. So, I want to ask for a little advice or a few opinions on this matter. I apologize for the length. Prior to my husband and I getting together- He had a great job, but spent pretty much every...
  13. Living a Lie

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am so tired of pretending that my marriage isn't the failure that it actually is. My husband and I were together for 4 1/2 years before we got married (July 09). I have no idea why we got married. It was this fairy tale idea that marriage would make our relationship stronger and better. It...
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