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  1. Does drinking an 8 ounce of wine for lunch and dinner cause problems?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband used to drink a 16 ounce glass of wine full to the rim before dinner on an empty stomach in the past years and I start noticing that we often had fights in the evening and I started attributing this to his wine. Hubby stopped drinking for a while when I pleaded him to stop or at least...
  2. Alcohol Abuse & Separation - 1st Year of Marriage

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I need a place to share my story and feelings. I'm getting anxious waiting for my counseling appointment next week. Any insight into my situation is welcomed. I've been married for a year and am currently separated from my husband. Just two weeks after our honeymoon, my husband received...
  3. What do I do?

    Relationships and Addiction
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  4. How do we move on?

    Coping with Infidelity
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  5. Gaming and constant indifference, not sure what to do.

    Relationships and Addiction
    Hello, so this is my first post on this site. I guess I'm looking for an outsider's perspective. I've been married for nearly 4 years, I met my husband on a video game when I was 12, he was 13. We kept in contact and met each other in person when I was 18 him 19. We got married when he was 20...
  6. Does it really ever get better?

    Relationships and Addiction
    Does anyone have any success stories? My husband and I have only been married 4 years and we are in counseling now. I would like to think he can change, but so far I don't see any glimpse of proof. We have a one year old son and ever since he was born, I have taken a "I am not going to let you...
  7. Advice about Wife's drinking

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello Everyone. I really need some good advice. My wife and I have been married almost 9 months. Life has been wonderful. Except for one thing. We had a long distance relationship back before We married. We talked about everything. We both come from previous marriages so we wanted to cover...
  8. cAnt live like this but dont know what to do

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    after 12 years of marriage, i just cant live like this anymore. it would be different if my husband was trying to change or even would just tell me he loved me. but he cant or wont say until i say something. for 3 days straight (3 day drinking binge where he didnt come home), i kept texting him...
  9. One Spouse Changes Religious Beliefs

    Relationships and Spirituality
    Looking for some advice. My wife and I both belonged to the same church when we were married and have continued so for the past 6 years. I recently have done a lot of digging and soul searching and decided that I no longer believe in that religion. My wife, for the most part, has been...
  10. My New (alcoholic) husband crossed the line and violently attacked me

    Relationships and Addiction
    This is my 1st post on this site. Here is my background. I was with my ex-h for 8 years. During that time he was arrested 6 different times spending nearly 2 yrs total in jail for stealing to support his meth habit. I finally gave up on him after his last arrest last January (2012). I loved...
  11. new, looking for some advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    Last Sunday (a week ago) my husband came home and said he was unhappy in our marriage. Background: We have been together for almost 8 years. We just got married in June. Things have been good-or so I thought. He was moody since September, and claimed it was just work stress when I asked him...
  12. Tired of being left alone.

    General Relationship Discussion
    My H works M-F and goes out with his friends on weekends, they go "dirt roading" which is driving around and drinking. and when I say he works M-F, he stays where he works because it is a 2 hr. drive from where we live and we just don't have the gas money for him to drive back and forth...
  13. Week 2 of separation, hanging on to recovery for dear life!

    Relationships and Addiction
    It has been a rough couple of weeks, I am now 3+ months sober, and my husband moved out about 2 weeks ago, to take some space and figure out if he can come to terms with his anger and fear from my 2-year relapse after having long term recovery. I am trying to work the 180, focus on my recovery...
  14. I feel like our marriage is falling apart.

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My husband and I have been married for almost two years. When we first got married we were both in the military in two different branches. Now I am out of the military as I fufilled my 6 year commitment and contract. My husband is still in the military and his job has relocated us overseas. We...
  15. Does alcohl r drugs cause permanent damage?

    Relationships and Addiction
    We've been married 13 years - second marriage for both of us. I have two children; a 24 year old boy who lives away from home and 19 year old girl who still lives at home and attends university. He has an 18 year old daughter at boarding school. We married within 6 months of meeting and I then...
  16. Reconcilliation Probabaility

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi all, I have found myself in a really unusual situation, that after a very nasty divorce 2 years ago, I realised how much I loved my ex husband. I eventually plucked up the courage to tell hi, which was probably a big shock, however nothing happened, but we bacame very good friends. For a...
  17. Advice needed!!!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi all, I am new to this forum and have read some of the posts hoping to find others who can relate. Please bear with me as this will probably be a long post... I met my husband when I was 19 and he was 21 while we were traveling around Australia. We fell totally in love. He was from another...
  18. he drinks EVERY SINGLE DAY...

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, This is my second post on this topic and i REALLY NEED THE HELP, so please please. keep reading.... I have been dating my boyfriend for just about 2 years now, and he is the only person in the world who has ever made me feel the way that I do. He is caring, respectful, loving, and the...
  19. he drinks EVERY SINGLE DAY...

    Relationships and Addiction
    Hello, I have never posted here before, I was Google-ing advice for this when I came across this site. I just had to sign up... I have been dating my boyfriend for just about 2 years now, and he is the only person in the world who has ever made me feel the way that I do. He is caring...
  20. Husband becoming a danger to himself and me - alcohol/depression

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am frightened. I think my husband it going through emotional turmoil and started drinking alot lately and also gets into a temper and destroys things in the house. I lay in my bed and wake up frightened that he will get into a rage and end up doing something to me and or himself. He does not...
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