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  1. A Bit of Advice from someone who has been on both sides

    Coping with Infidelity
    In reading some of these threads - and I posted a few long ago - I have some thoughts for those of you posting. Please hear me out because I have been on both sides of this fence: 1. If your gut tells you something is wrong LISTEN! It probably is. 2. Don't wait for years thinking that...
  2. Dr Jekyll or Mr Hyde

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married for 13 years and had a relationship with my husband for many years before we married. Five years ago I believed I was very lucky to be married to a good, decent husband and father. 7 years ago my husband retired from work, having had a high status job, and suffered a number...
  3. Reaction during Physical and emotional Affairs

    General Relationship Discussion
    Love, Lust & affairs The nightmare started when I came to know about her affairs. My wife was not even sure whether the child belongs to me or not. The DNA result clarified that the child is not mine. I was deeply in love with my wife, that I wrote her name on my body through tattoo which was...
  4. Doubts about my wife's affair

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I am not sure but seems that my wife has affair. I tried to check emails, phone calls but couldn't trace it. We are newly married couple with lot of problems understanding each other. She takes few classes and the professor invited us for lunch few days ago. He is married and we all...
  5. I need advise

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I hoping someone can help me. I’m 54, my wife is 53. We have been married for almost 28 years. We have 4 children, the youngest is 21. We married one year after meeting each other. I thought I loved her, but I now realize that I did not even know what it meant to be in love. She knew she...
  6. love, lust & affairs....

    Relationships and Spirituality
    The nightmare started when I came to know about her affairs. My wife was not even sure whether the child belongs to me or not. The DNA result claims that its mine. I was deeply in love with my wife, that I wrote her name on my body thru tattoo which was her first valentine gift. My wife grew up...
  7. I Want To Know The Truth

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    Years ago I trusted my Dad until I found out he had been lying about lots of stuff. Mainly debts at the time but it also affected me badly as well and emotionally. I then found out to my dismay that my Dad has narcistic tendencies from checking and compulsive liar issues. Years ago my Dad was a...
  8. A Safe Internet Site To Find People

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have looked at many internet sites and have read horrible reviews about some of them. I'm sure their are some on this site that have looked for a wayward spouse or the spouse that cheated with your spouse. I want to ask them a question and have spoken to them after finding out about the...
  9. Workplace affairs

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Anyone in a large company engage in extra curricular activities with co workers? I see it alot in our foreign offices but haven't observed much of it state side. Especially if there are ALOT of hot women in your industry lol
  10. Appropriate Boundaries with members of opposite sex

    General Relationship Discussion
    A man was interviewing new drivers for his transportation company. The route was very dangerous and went along several steep cliffs through a mountain pass. The interviewer asked each man how close he could safely drive near the edge of the cliff. The first man responded, “I could drive within...
  11. The best thread on overcoming infidelity

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been reading a lot about infidelity and affairs from this site. In my counseling practice, one of my specialties is helping couples overcome the effects of infidelity. I have found that the best (positive) thread I have ever read on here for overcoming an affair was...
  12. When to call it quits?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I will start fromt the beginning. My husband and I were married in 1997 after dating for 6 months. I truly thought he was the man of my dreams and my soulmate. He treated me like no other man had (while we were dating). But once we got married, things slowly began to change. He no longer treated...
  13. A Year out from Affair..exhausted and confused

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    So, I am new here.. here is my story Pre Affair When I met my husband he was super passionate about his hobbies, one thing that drew me to him. He taught me everything about hunting, fishing, you get the picture. ** through the next few years, i realized he was quite selfish. his hobbies were...
  14. Preventing an Affair

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am in the process of planting seed in my backyard for grass. As my grass has been trying to grow, I have noticed that a lot of weeds have started coming up as well. I had done a lot of weed control prior to planting the seed and had thought I had taken care of my weed problem. I have since...
  15. Blog post on Healing from Affairs

    Coping with Infidelity
    I just finished a post on my blog where I discuss healing from affairs. My thoughts come from my experiences with my clients in marriage counseling as well as with many of the things I have seen on here. Improve My Marriage: Affairs: Healing from an Affair.