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  1. New Member Introductions
    Hi, My story: I've been married for 25 years, and on the brink of divorce. My wife of 25 years is an unaffectionate, narcissist - and in the past year has claimed I have emotionally cheated on her several times, treated her like crap, bullied her, neglected her and have never put her first...
  2. Coping with Infidelity
    My wife had a affair recently and I was hoping if any woman could talk to me. Thank you.
  3. Coping with Infidelity
    I need advice. My wife and I have been married for almost 13 years and have been together for over 15. We have two young daughters: 3 and 8. Two years ago she made a career change from nursing to real estate. She’s very good at it and has had great success. She’s finally happy in a job and I’ve...
  4. Coping with Infidelity
    My husband of 16 years has been having an affair with his coworker and now we’re divorcing so he can be with her. I was completely blindsided by him telling me he wanted to be with me, he just couldn’t back in October. I didn’t understand why he even wanted a divorce, until I found out about the...
  5. General Relationship Discussions
    I’m in a tricky situation. When my boyfriend of six years and I where going through some difficulties, he decided to (sort of) cheat on me. I say sort of because they didn’t get physically intimate (which is why he won’t call it cheating), BUT only because the girl he fancied didn’t seem to want...
  6. General Relationship Discussions
    For a while now I have been having dreams where I have been fooling around with other women in my dreams, but mostly just making out, I don't dream about penetration, BUT the one thing I noticed is that I'm not even aware of my wife's presence in the dream, like I never think to myself "oh no...
  7. Coping with Infidelity
    I've suspected of an affair for sometime with her co-worker but I believe my wife is a covert narcissist and is gas lighting me. Monday night I notice that she shaved and also just came off her period. Tuesday she oddly had a shower right after work when I took my kids for a bike ride. When I...
  8. New Member Introductions
    We're in our mid thirties and healthy. Still fancy my wife, but we've had sex about 1-2 times per year, for a few years now. Tried talking about it, a few times, it upsets her that we aren't having more sex and I try my best to comfort her by saying it's not an issue and it doesn't bother me and...
  9. General Relationship Discussions
    Hi all I just need advice, opinions or hearing about your experiences with infidelity 2 years ago I discovered a text messages my wife sent to a co-worker the day he relocated overseas with his wife. They were both teachers and knew each other from university. In 2013 I warned my wife about his...
  10. Coping with Infidelity
    Looking for some outside perspective. I am 38(f) and husband is 42(m). Been married 10 years. Have two children aged 3 and 6. A month ago I discovered my husband has been having affairs throughout our marriage. I know of at least 3 and seemed to be purely sexual. I had no idea at the time...
  11. Coping with Infidelity
    I have known my husband since we were kids. We got married a few years ago and I became pregnant, which came as abit of a shock to both of us as neither of us were ready, however we were both pleased. Towards the end of my pregnancy my husband went on a work night out and came home - he left his...
  12. The Men's Clubhouse
    Hey everyone. Figured I could do with a mans perspective. If you were my husband and you were done with the ow..you’d delete all contact details? Or if you would keep, why would you? A couple of years ago I found messages on my husbands phone to another woman. These messages were highly...
  13. Coping with Infidelity
    Hi everyone. A couple of years ago I found messages on my husbands phone to another woman. These messages were highly emotional, more so than he ever has with me - and alluding to their affair also being physical. i confronted him and we spoke about saving our marriage. I thought she had been...
  14. General Relationship Discussions
    My wife and I have been married for 19 years. She is 47 and I am 65. I retired a few years back and we downsized our home and relocated to a seaside town. I suffer with incontinence and my sex drive has all but flown the nest. Because of the issues I have when we moved we agreed to sleeping...
  15. Coping with Infidelity
    In January 2021 a man and former classmate emailed my wife. They then began a secret online and phone relationship. I discovered it in June last year. She said it is nothing, now they talk for anything up to 50 minutes. She says it’s just friendship and that he means nothing to her. He has sent...
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    New Member Introductions
    Im a H 47 W 39 TOGETHER 15 yrs Married 3 6/22 5 kids with her 4,7, 9,9, 14 2 others from previous relationship 27, 31 D DAY 11-29-21 I work on the road doing commercial infrastructure construction. Im gone 8 months of the year...
  17. Sex in Marriage
    Names have been changed for obvious reasons. It all started about eight years ago. I just moved back to the area I grew up in and was staying in a homeless shelter until I could find work and a place to live. I spent my days volunteering in the soup kitchen as I did not believe in taking...
  18. Coping with Infidelity
    My wife and I have been together for four years and we have a 1 year old daughter together. Our relationship was absolutely perfect... right up until she got pregnant. Then it was like somebody flip the light switch. She would purposely pick fights and push my buttons to prompt a reaction from...
  19. Coping with Infidelity
    My husband and I have been married for 7 months, and together for 5 years. I just found out that my husband started an emotional affair with a much younger coworker and it became sexual. This affair started 3 weeks after our wedding and has been ongoing for the entire duration of our 7 month...
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