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  1. Coping with Infidelity
    Looking for some outside perspective. I am 38(f) and husband is 42(m). Been married 10 years. Have two children aged 3 and 6. A month ago I discovered my husband has been having affairs throughout our marriage. I know of at least 3 and seemed to be purely sexual. I had no idea at the time...
  2. Coping with Infidelity
    I have known my husband since we were kids. We got married a few years ago and I became pregnant, which came as abit of a shock to both of us as neither of us were ready, however we were both pleased. Towards the end of my pregnancy my husband went on a work night out and came home - he left his...
  3. The Men's Clubhouse
    Hey everyone. Figured I could do with a mans perspective. If you were my husband and you were done with the ow..you’d delete all contact details? Or if you would keep, why would you? A couple of years ago I found messages on my husbands phone to another woman. These messages were highly...
  4. Coping with Infidelity
    Hi everyone. A couple of years ago I found messages on my husbands phone to another woman. These messages were highly emotional, more so than he ever has with me - and alluding to their affair also being physical. i confronted him and we spoke about saving our marriage. I thought she had been...
  5. General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I have been married for 19 years. She is 47 and I am 65. I retired a few years back and we downsized our home and relocated to a seaside town. I suffer with incontinence and my sex drive has all but flown the nest. Because of the issues I have when we moved we agreed to sleeping...
  6. Coping with Infidelity
    In January 2021 a man and former classmate emailed my wife. They then began a secret online and phone relationship. I discovered it in June last year. She said it is nothing, now they talk for anything up to 50 minutes. She says it’s just friendship and that he means nothing to her. He has sent...
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    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Im a H 47 W 39 TOGETHER 15 yrs Married 3 6/22 5 kids with her 4,7, 9,9, 14 2 others from previous relationship 27, 31 D DAY 11-29-21 I work on the road doing commercial infrastructure construction. Im gone 8 months of the year...
  8. Sex in Marriage
    Names have been changed for obvious reasons. It all started about eight years ago. I just moved back to the area I grew up in and was staying in a homeless shelter until I could find work and a place to live. I spent my days volunteering in the soup kitchen as I did not believe in taking...
  9. Coping with Infidelity
    My wife and I have been together for four years and we have a 1 year old daughter together. Our relationship was absolutely perfect... right up until she got pregnant. Then it was like somebody flip the light switch. She would purposely pick fights and push my buttons to prompt a reaction from...
  10. Coping with Infidelity
    My husband and I have been married for 7 months, and together for 5 years. I just found out that my husband started an emotional affair with a much younger coworker and it became sexual. This affair started 3 weeks after our wedding and has been ongoing for the entire duration of our 7 month...
  11. Coping with Infidelity
    Should I be worried he's having an emotional affair? Lately Ive noticed he's been glued to his phone. This isnt something new. Hes always playing games or reading up on his tabletop games or scrolling through social media but things have felt off recently. Hes been turning the screen off or...
  12. Coping with Infidelity
    This worksheet is for all those who are trying to cope with the aftermath of an affair. Download below.
  13. Coping with Infidelity
    So, my wife and I have been married about 7 years, we have been a couple for 15. About 3 years ago she went through menopause and sex for us has completely evaporated. We have talked about it and the issue's that we are having multiple times. She is 57 and I am 50, she has agreed to go get...
  14. Coping with Infidelity
    This is a long post but I really hope to get some insight I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and I never expected nor saw any of this coming. He would always tell me how happy he was and that he couldn’t picture his life without me. I felt the same. He is the only person in the world that...
  15. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello, I would like to receive some feedback from about my story as well. I apologize if the post gets long, but I hope everyone beers with me and hears my story: Me and my husband were (still are) married for 2 years, but he just left me three weeks ago. To tell you the full story: He...
  16. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Well, After an emotional affair with another man my wife began to see problems in our marriage. The problems became an excuse to continue the affair. I would got trough a lot of emotions and, eventually, we would divorce. Reading this will offer some warnings signs to others. The first signs...
  17. Coping with Infidelity
    So on Oct 17th 2017 I discovered that my wife had been having a 6 month long affair with her boss. On the 17th I thought it was just an emotional affair but on the night of Oct 20th we got into a huge argument and she didn't come home that night. This was the first time anything like that had...
  18. Coping with Infidelity
    I had posted 2 earlier entries about suspecting my wife from having an affair. Now waiting for final nail in coffin .... PI starting his work tomorrow. We were happily married at 23 yos and for 28 yrs (had 2 children) loving relationship .... sex 1 per week. Had a medical mismanagement that got...
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