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  1. What do you do with this?

    Coping with Infidelity
    So, my wife and I have been married about 7 years, we have been a couple for 15. About 3 years ago she went through menopause and sex for us has completely evaporated. We have talked about it and the issue's that we are having multiple times. She is 57 and I am 50, she has agreed to go get...
  2. It’s been 9 months since D day but the betrayal lasted for five years and the pain is strong as ever

    Coping with Infidelity
    This is a long post but I really hope to get some insight I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and I never expected nor saw any of this coming. He would always tell me how happy he was and that he couldn’t picture his life without me. I felt the same. He is the only person in the world that...
  3. International marriage and him having an affair

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello, I would like to receive some feedback from about my story as well. I apologize if the post gets long, but I hope everyone beers with me and hears my story: Me and my husband were (still are) married for 2 years, but he just left me three weeks ago. To tell you the full story: He...
  4. Emotional Affair and Divorce

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Well, After an emotional affair with another man my wife began to see problems in our marriage. The problems became an excuse to continue the affair. I would got trough a lot of emotions and, eventually, we would divorce. Reading this will offer some warnings signs to others. The first signs...
  5. Wife had affair with her boss

    Coping with Infidelity
    So on Oct 17th 2017 I discovered that my wife had been having a 6 month long affair with her boss. On the 17th I thought it was just an emotional affair but on the night of Oct 20th we got into a huge argument and she didn't come home that night. This was the first time anything like that had...
  6. Wife Affair - Blown Wide Opened (Soon)

    Coping with Infidelity
    I had posted 2 earlier entries about suspecting my wife from having an affair. Now waiting for final nail in coffin .... PI starting his work tomorrow. We were happily married at 23 yos and for 28 yrs (had 2 children) loving relationship .... sex 1 per week. Had a medical mismanagement that got...
  7. Haunted by memories and realities

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi folks, In a nutshell: married 30 years, separated 2 years during years 20-22. Husband had an affair. I had an emotional affair before his physical affair. Things were deteriorating for years. Reconciliation has been good for the most part. You can't erase memories. I had never seen my...
  8. Lost those loving feelings

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am at a crossroads here and really need some outside perspective. My husband had a year long affair during which he asked for a divorce and we separated (kind of). During that time he carried on with his affair that I had no idea of. We moved back in together (still didn’t know about the...
  9. Filing Divorce Next Week - Hope?

    Reconciliation
    Firstly, my wife and I have been going to individual therapy and have gone to couples therapy in March through May. I know a common reply on here is "don't listen to strangers on the internet, get professional help", but I'm hoping for some perspective, and just to try and get my thoughts on...
  10. Wife had an eotional affair and I can't stop thinking about it

    General Relationship Discussion
    There is alot to say but i am going with the basics and if you have questions just ask. i am 31 my wife and I have been together 9 years, 3 of them married. backround... she lost her ability to carry children at 19 and we must use a surrogate. From the end of april to the beginning of june she...
  11. Sleeping in Seperate Rooms

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    i found out about my wifes year long affair and I am currently two months out from the day I discovered it. for the past 2 weeks we have been sleeping in separate rooms because she kept details and other information from me, so I made the move. so far us being in separate rooms has calmed me...
  12. 14 years of marriage and wifes 1st affair

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Used to read the forums a lot, but not for a while since my wife and my relationship has been improving and really good the last year until early this week. I plan on reading the forums again, but so lost and hurt at this point I can't think straight. Will try to keep it short. Married 14...
  13. My husband is leaving me and I can't cope

    Coping with Infidelity
    I've been going through this for 3 weeks now. My husband has been having an emotional affair that has lead to hickies on her neck. But it all started with them being friends and riding into work together, 3rd shift factory work. And now they have a "special connection he and I never had". I know...
  14. Your first and only Love

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am writing this because unlike what I have been reading for the past two weeks, I didn't think it would happen to me. I met my wife in a night club 13 years ago and we connected in a way that I can honestly only say was like the world dissolved around us. In a room of several hundred we...
  15. Getting Over An Affair

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I am looking for any support/advice from someone who has accepted their spouse back after a significant affair. My wife of ten years had an affair about a year 1/2 ago. She moved out and continued to see her boyfriend for 5 months. I was tempted to file for divorce (obviously), but felt...
  16. I resent my husband for taking me for granted

    General Relationship Discussion
    I resent my husband for taking me for granted....I have 2 kids...I work on a full time job. Pay half of the bills but do everything at home....take care of the kids, cooking, cleaning, taking out garbage even calling the handyman if anything is broken. I am tired doing everything. He doesn't do...
  17. Wife had an affair and I now need advice on my course

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi Everyone, I'm new to the forum but have read a few threads before registering and have already picked up some solid advice but now need some advice please. A bit of background about things first :- I have been with my wife for 15 years and married for 8 years. We have two children, one is...
  18. Cheating in the marital bed

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've heard that even when having an affair, bringing the other person into the home, or the bed you share with your spouse is rare. I think that most of the time when people cheat they are already checking out of the relationship, but I can't help but wonder about the significance of going this...
  19. Wife's affair

    Self-Help Marriage & Relationship Programs
    Seven years ago my wife had an affair with a co-worker. Needless to say I was/am devastated and went through all the "typical" thoughts and questions described by most men on this site. With much effort on both of our parts, we have stayed together and my wife says that she feels our marriage...
  20. No contact letter?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband has been conducting an emotional affair with his ex-girlfriend. It finished about 3 months ago (he finally decided he wanted to stay married to me), but they've talked 3-4 times since then. I found out about a week ago. Three months ago, he told her "don't call me unless it's an...
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