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I’m in a tricky situation. When my boyfriend of six years and I where going through some difficulties, he decided to (sort of) cheat on me. I say sort of because they didn’t get physically intimate (which is why he won’t call it cheating), BUT only because the girl he fancied didn’t seem to want...

For a while now I have been having dreams where I have been fooling around with other women in my dreams, but mostly just making out, I don't dream about penetration, BUT the one thing I noticed is that I'm not even aware of my wife's presence in the dream, like I never think to myself "oh no...

I've suspected of an affair for sometime with her co-worker but I believe my wife is a covert narcissist and is gas lighting me. Monday night I notice that she shaved and also just came off her period. Tuesday she oddly had a shower right after work when I took my kids for a bike ride. When I...

We're in our mid thirties and healthy. Still fancy my wife, but we've had sex about 1-2 times per year, for a few years now. Tried talking about it, a few times, it upsets her that we aren't having more sex and I try my best to comfort her by saying it's not an issue and it doesn't bother me and...

Hi all I just need advice, opinions or hearing about your experiences with infidelity 2 years ago I discovered a text messages my wife sent to a co-worker the day he relocated overseas with his wife. They were both teachers and knew each other from university. In 2013 I warned my wife about his...

Looking for some outside perspective. I am 38(f) and husband is 42(m). Been married 10 years. Have two children aged 3 and 6. A month ago I discovered my husband has been having affairs throughout our marriage. I know of at least 3 and seemed to be purely sexual. I had no idea at the time...

I have known my husband since we were kids. We got married a few years ago and I became pregnant, which came as abit of a shock to both of us as neither of us were ready, however we were both pleased. Towards the end of my pregnancy my husband went on a work night out and came home - he left his...

Hey everyone. Figured I could do with a mans perspective. If you were my husband and you were done with the ow..you’d delete all contact details? Or if you would keep, why would you? A couple of years ago I found messages on my husbands phone to another woman. These messages were highly...

Hi everyone. A couple of years ago I found messages on my husbands phone to another woman. These messages were highly emotional, more so than he ever has with me - and alluding to their affair also being physical. i confronted him and we spoke about saving our marriage. I thought she had been...

My wife and I have been married for 19 years. She is 47 and I am 65. I retired a few years back and we downsized our home and relocated to a seaside town. I suffer with incontinence and my sex drive has all but flown the nest. Because of the issues I have when we moved we agreed to sleeping...

In January 2021 a man and former classmate emailed my wife. They then began a secret online and phone relationship. I discovered it in June last year. She said it is nothing, now they talk for anything up to 50 minutes. She says it’s just friendship and that he means nothing to her. He has sent...

Im a H 47 W 39 TOGETHER 15 yrs Married 3 6/22 5 kids with her 4,7, 9,9, 14 2 others from previous relationship 27, 31 D DAY 11-29-21 I work on the road doing commercial infrastructure construction. Im gone 8 months of the year...

Names have been changed for obvious reasons. It all started about eight years ago. I just moved back to the area I grew up in and was staying in a homeless shelter until I could find work and a place to live. I spent my days volunteering in the soup kitchen as I did not believe in taking...

My wife and I have been together for four years and we have a 1 year old daughter together. Our relationship was absolutely perfect... right up until she got pregnant. Then it was like somebody flip the light switch. She would purposely pick fights and push my buttons to prompt a reaction from...

My husband and I have been married for 7 months, and together for 5 years. I just found out that my husband started an emotional affair with a much younger coworker and it became sexual. This affair started 3 weeks after our wedding and has been ongoing for the entire duration of our 7 month...

Should I be worried he's having an emotional affair? Lately Ive noticed he's been glued to his phone. This isnt something new. Hes always playing games or reading up on his tabletop games or scrolling through social media but things have felt off recently. Hes been turning the screen off or...

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So, my wife and I have been married about 7 years, we have been a couple for 15. About 3 years ago she went through menopause and sex for us has completely evaporated. We have talked about it and the issue's that we are having multiple times. She is 57 and I am 50, she has agreed to go get...

This is a long post but I really hope to get some insight I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and I never expected nor saw any of this coming. He would always tell me how happy he was and that he couldn’t picture his life without me. I felt the same. He is the only person in the world that...