affair recovery

I am at a crossroads here and really need some outside perspective. My husband had a year long affair during which he asked for a divorce and we separated (kind of). During that time he carried on with his affair that I had no idea of. We moved back in together (still didn’t know about the...

I know this story has been told here a million times already. I'm just really struggling right now and would like to know somebody's listening. My wife and I have been married 18 years. We've raised two great boys 14 and 16. My wife thinks she's going through a midlife crisis (she's...

My Story with Betrayal I will break this up into four parts: Overview of her affair Description of people involved Things I have learned and would change Some questions Overview: About three months ago my wife confessed to me that she was seeing someone (an affair but she would not admit to...

In March of 2013 I found sexual/loving texts that my husband exchanged with a former employee of his. I confronted him and he admitted they'd been 'involved' for the past 6 months. She was a foreign employee who are hired to work seasonally. In May 2013 I found cards he had bought, but not...

I recently found out my husband has cheated on me and I want to save our marriage. We have lived together for over 7 years, married for almost 2, and we have a 4 year old son together. What happened? First, my husband started to hang out with a buddy from work about a month ago, no big deal. He...

Just found out that my wife of almost 30 years had a six month affair (which just ended) and a one night stand several years ago. We are separated because she wants to end the marriage (I actually want to try to reconcile). In the meanwhile, I'm trying to take care of my own needs while living...

Just a few questions, if anyone wants to chime in. How long after your separation did your feelings of love toward your WS start to die? During the separation did they live alone, with family or same sex roommate (not with an AP), or did they move in with their AP? How did your WSs' affairs...

Hi guys and gals I need advice, I was in a relationship for 6 years and 2 of those was bad, the rest was awesome. We own a house together and about 2 years ago I started a hobby that became such an obsession I put it before everything. Really I don't know where my head was going. she tried to...

Im new here and just read that there is a coping with infidelity section so Im reposting here. Gonna try to make this short. My husband had been "in love" (quote him) with his co-worker and having an affair with her for 5 years. He said he was in love with her and wanted a divorce so I told...

Gonna try to make this short. My husband had been "in love" (quote him) with his co-worker and having an affair with her for 5 years. He said he was in love with her and wanted a divorce so I told him fine and he moved out and they got their own place. After 2 days of being out of the house he...

I just wanted to post a little bit of my story to give inspiration and encouragement to others who are trying to stay married. My husband was involved in his affair for about a year before I finally got the nerve to find out for sure and get the details. Things were terribly wrong in our...