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Some background: I 28M and my wife 25F have been married for five years. We have three children, ages 5, 3, and 2. I will readily admit I really am the problem here. I grew up in an extremely toxic household with a narcissistic physically abusive stepfather and an enabling mother. Growing up I...

My marriage and relationship with my husband has been suffering for a long time. I know this does not excuse cheating but our marriage has been terrible. My relationship with the man I am seeing started probably crossing the line about ten months ago and kept progressing from there. This...

long story short my husband and I have been married a few years and I found out that he cheated on me when he went away with some friends. When he told me my first thought was ok I am going to go have sex with someone else. I don’t know if I would follow through on this but I am having a hard...

Ok so my wife of almost 20 years thinks it's OK to hang out with a male friend of ours that's 15 years older by herself at his house and have a few drinks. I've told her I didn't like that one bit and I asked her to stop but she continues. Then I find out she's going over there without telling...

question: would you be upset if your partner was physically/sexually dismissive of you? How long would you tolerate it for? How would you feel if in the middle of foreplay your partner asks to stop even though they are the one that initiated it in the first place and they are aware that you are...

Everytime I speak to my partner, those 2 little words greet me. It doesn't matter what I'm saying. It could be asking if they want a coffee, what time they hope to finish work or asking where they put something. I could be talking to the cat... and I still get 'Now what?' I've explained that...

Hello! I have been with my partner for 10 years, we have 2 beautiful children together and generally have a very easy-going and loving relationship. The one thing I am not okay with is porn. To me, it is fantasizing about being with another, probably better looking woman etc. (By the way, do men...

Husband (26m) and I(23f) have been married for a year, daughter was born a few months after we got married. We got pregnant on accident but we loved each other and decided to get married. When I got pregnant we moved a 20 hour drive closer to his family. His father got him a decent job. The...

Hi there. So in November 2021 my ex gf broke up with me saying that she'd been unhappy for 2 years and i was devastated. cue weeks of the classic horrific emotional roller coaster as we work together, live together and have two kids together and I have bo where to move to or the money to do it...

Hi My wife and I have been married for almost 11 years. Yes we are happy. I am bisexual, never actually been forward and told her and haven’t played with guys since we have been married. I am wanting to either have the opportunity to play with guys again (happy to have her involved) or for her...

I am trying to work out a way forward and hoping that sharing and asking for some other perspectives might help. Me and husband have been married for 4 years, together for 7. We have a 18 month old daughter and live near the majority of his family (mother and siblings, some have kids) but in...

My wife and I have been married for 7 years now. We have two kids together and no catastrophic low points yet. Over the last year my parents got real sick, my dad with Parkinson’s and my mom with cancer. My dad is living with one of my sisters at the moment and I’m gone every other week to take...

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 years now. We have a pretty normal relationship not really a lot of fighting or disagreement. She's amazing and i love her and don't question anything she's doing. For the past three weeks beginning today she has been extremely distant though...

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Two weeks ago, my (M37) wife (F33) of more than seven years asked me for a separation. Although it came somewhat out of the blue, it was preceded by about seven weeks of terrible communication, tensions related to her work, her being physically and emotionally absent from the home and household...

Can someone please tell why do some MAN that has a beautiful, intelligent woman as a girlfriend will want to make her insecure mentioning or better said strutting in her face of how gorgeous/precious another woman is (actress, celebrity, etc) What is it about these man? WHY? Do they want to...

I have caught my husband liking very often pictures of a friend of us before. He used to actively search for her profile which was making me curious of why and she is also the partner of my husband friend. And whenever I asked I was called crazy or he played offended even when I was just asking...

I know a lovely older couple through a volunteer program. The wife confided in me that she has considered divorce or separation on and off over the years, but is on the fence because it seems so overwhelming and complicated. She’s concerned that because they’re no longer able to work, she’s not...