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I have been married for about 8 years and have been with my wife for 13 years going on 14 this year. I was 17 & she was 19 when we first started dating...throughout the years we have had our ups and downs...as I figure all marriages have.throughout the years she has lied, kept things from me, &...

Hi all So I figured I might start a discussion about mother-in-laws. I’ve been having issues with mine for years now, unfortunately she is passive aggressive, gets offended by everything very quickly a control freak and has no respect for boundaries. She lets herself into our house whenever she...

Hello everyone, I joined this site to post on my situation. My husband and I have been together for 13 years total (married for three of those years as of next month). We don't have any children bc we wanted to be financially secure beforehand... we're getting there, though... maybe another...

Hello, I would like to receive some feedback from about my story as well. I apologize if the post gets long, but I hope everyone beers with me and hears my story: Me and my husband were (still are) married for 2 years, but he just left me three weeks ago. To tell you the full story: He...

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Hi, We're in our early 30s and plan to marry soon. I love her, and she loves me, so there's no problem in that department. However, there is a recurring problem that creeps up in the bedroom. Long story short, she got pregnant (she delivered a few years ago), and she gained some weight from...

My husband has been talking to his former mistress. He was over seas for 3 years and they were friends. Our marriage started getting tough and he cheated on me with her. I could do nothing becuase i was here in the states and they were over there. Hes been home a few months and shes in...

I've been married for 7 years with my husband, we have 3 kids. [7, 5 and 2 years old] I actually don't know where to start but I am really sick and tired of my husband being temperamental, being a spoiled brat, being negative, irresponsible, abusive and selfish. He grew up being spoiled and...

I had to recently kick my wife out of the house. She had begun lying to me about money and then cheated on me while I was sick. Our marriage had already seemed to have lost its spark but I still loved her and would never have wanted to leave her. She stopped coming home when I got sick(Strep)...

Hi, so I've joined this after reading about a couple of people who have gone through what I've gone through but from a different angle... My husband and I have been married for 4 years and he said he wants to leave me. He said this last month too and gave me a last chance... I really need some...

I have been married for a year and a half now and we had a baby last 7 months. Being a stay-at-home mom dragged everything off of me. I have to give up work(promotions too), I had to give up my money to help in bills and mortgage. I had to cope up with myself, I have to take care of my child and...

Sorry for the long post. My husband and I have been married for 12 years this past February. This has been my only real relationship, as we got married the day I turned 21. I used to have lots of jealousy and anger issues, but with his help and support, have gotten pretty much over them. I...

Deleting thread

So to make a long story short... wife and I having marital issues. Find out wife is cheating on me. Wife leaves me. Wife divorces me. Timeframe is about 3 years for everything. Divorce just granted a few days ago. (I have a bunch of posts for specific details). Was and am really depressed...

Long story short, my husband and I had been together since we were 17. We are now 28, were married at 26. About 1 month before our wedding, I went to turn off the music on his phone because I couldn't sleep, and I found an open conversation with multiple people on this app called kik. Until that...

First, a little background. I’m 35 and my wife is 36. We’ve been together for a couple of years now. This is my second marriage, and I have an awesome son who is six years old from my previous marriage. My wife adores my son, and he her, so there are no issues there. The issue is with us...

My wife has become a meth addict over the past couple of months (approx 3 or 4). I found all her paraphernalia and drugs in the dresser and woke up one morning early to find her smoking it in the living room. I begged and pleaded for her to get help, and still tried as of last night. I'm...

First post for me. Seems weird to reach out to strangers for advice, but I'm exhausted and could use some advice and support. I'm 26, married for 3 years. Been together for 7. It appears he has no self motivation anymore and it didn't use to be this way. I have to encourage and push him to do...

Hey everyone this is my very first online post so please bear with me and my mistakes. Anyways, I am very much needing some experienced marital advice. My wife and i have been married for 6 years and have been together for 10. We are a mixed family of 7 with both of us bringing children into the...

Sorry in advance for such a long posting. I am really going through the mill at the moment and I’d appreciate some views and encouragement. My wife and I met in Barcelona Spain nine years ago. She is Canadian and I am British. We hit it off immediately and started dating. Things were...