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  1. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey everyone. I have a bit to unpack here, TIA if you read to the end. Long story short: I'm contemplating divorcing my husband of 3 years. We have been together for 7. A variety of things are making me consider this, explored in detail below. I love my husband, but I don't know if the...
  2. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello all, I've been struggling with this for a while, and I found this site, so I'm hoping to get some help here. My husband and I have been married for 10 years now. We have one child (4yo), a house, animals, etc. The problem is that, essentially, I feel like my husband is just a roommate...
  3. General Relationship Discussion
    So my husband and I have always lived with other people during our marriage(3 years) due to finances first it was rommates, then his sister and niece now ,My BIL has been with us for over a year and has cause so much stress between my husband and I. He lies about having a job, doesn’t help with...
  4. General Relationship Discussion
    I am fustraded sexually and physically tired. I cook the meals, get my child ready for daycrare bring him there pick him up, do the laundry, do the dishes, pick up the house, hired a cleaner every other week to clean, help meal plan, help order groceries online for delivery, feed the dog, take...
  5. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello TAM community, I'm coming to you out of desperation in need of as much sage advice as I can get... Long-story short, I threatened my wife that I would take full custody of our unborn child. It was a foolish, desperate attempt to get her to realize that I am just as much committed to the...
  6. Sex in Marriage
    Hello, TAM! I recently got married to my husband after being together for two years. Before we got married, he seemed sexually insatiable. It was like he couldn't keep his hands off me! His sex drive was much higher than mine, but that was alright, because I was always happy to go along with it...
  7. Sex in Marriage
    Ladies...is it normal to fantasize of other men during sex with your husband? We have been married since college (30 years). About 15 years ago my wife had a 3-4 month affair. Unwisely, I wanted to know all the details of their encounters and she shared with me that the sex and her orgasms were...
  8. General Relationship Discussion
    My fiancee and I are getting married soon, and as he is older (12 years) and is coming into the marriage with a significant amount of assets and a son we both decided a prenup would be necessary. Neither of us has been previously married. After discussion he explained the prenup would be in...
  9. The Ladies' Lounge
    First post for me. Seems weird to reach out to strangers for advice, but I'm exhausted and could use some advice and support. I'm 26, married for 3 years. Been together for 7. It appears he has no self motivation anymore and it didn't use to be this way. I have to encourage and push him to do...
  10. The Men's Clubhouse
    I've been married for over a year now, to my wife who I've been with nearly 3 years. Early on when we started going out together, I brought up the fantasy I had of watching her being with another guy, and sharing her with other men. She wasn't put off completely by it, and for about a year or...
  11. Sex in Marriage
    My husband and i have been married for a year and a half now. He's more experienced than i am in The bedroom, and i was raised to be very ladylike. He has recently been complaining e hat i a not active enough in the bed, but i don't really know what to do about it. He likes m on top, but i...
  12. General Relationship Discussion
    am looking for some anonynous advice ive been married 7 years and we have two children together. a couple times over these 7 years weve had rough spots in our marrige. my wife would back away from me emotionally and physically, to make a long story short i neglected my wife by living my own...
  13. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, my name is Bill and I am hoping to get some opinions on some issues I am having in my marriage. I love my wife very much and we have a perfect marriage with the exception of a couple issues that we just cant seem to see eye to eye on. I am 38 and my wife is 41. I have 2 children who live...
  14. General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I have a disagreement which threatens to destroy our marriage, because we are both very strong in our feelings. We would like to hear others' views and/or advice on how we can get passed this, and move on. Any posts would be greatly appreciated. Here's the situation: my wife and...
  15. Sex in Marriage
    I'm a 32 year old woman and I'm with my husband for about 15 years we have 4 Lovely children and we are now having our 5th. In the past couple of years my sex drive has become little or nothing close to celibacy, My poor husband has been trying to help spice things up with fantasies/role-play/...
  16. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I would be so grateful for any advice or direction that you all could give me... My situation is this: Married 4 years, together 12. Husband has been grumpier than usual for some time, but I just thought it was due to increased demands at work. 2 weeks ago he announces that he wants out...
  17. General Relationship Discussion
    So hey everyone, this is a strange topic for me, I never really worry about this stuff. But my wife was talking about she is ugly because she has a few unwanted hairs growing out in places that are very visible. And I'm all like :confused: "But you're not ugly, you're sexy!" So I was thinking...
  18. General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, need advice on this. Married for 20 years. All in all, we are best friends and have a great relationship. But my husband wants to join another band. He was in a band in the past and it takes a lot of time away from the family. The band he wants to join plays every weekend throughout the...
  19. General Relationship Discussion
    I need some advice desperately. My husband and I keep having the same argument and I need to know if I have any right to speak up about what I feel like is an insulting disregard for privacy. Some quick backstory. I have been married for 3.5 years and have been living with my husband for a...
  20. General Relationship Discussion
    Im not sure which section this falls under (infidelity, considering divorce, separating, or reconciliation) I'm just looking for some input, feedback or advice on my situatuion. I have been married for 5 years. I look now at allot of warning signs that I ignored because I was in love and my...
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