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  1. Co-parenting with an Addict

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello Everyone, Some quick facts about me and my situation. I am currently going through my divorce(filed but not yet finalized) and have sole custody of my children (ages 7 and 4) I am having a hard time trying to balance co-parenting with their father. After we separated, about 2 years ago, he...
  2. Am I Done?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years. This is my third marriage, his first. He has struggled with sexual addictions long bf I came into the picture (and had no clue about until after we were married). I've tried helping him. He's tried visiting several psychologists with no...
  3. What should I do with my boyfriend?

    Relationships and Addiction
    Hi, all I am new here. I was the name of the site that made me post. I am Susan from British Columbia. I don't know what to do I am all in a confused situation. I am living with my boyfriend for the past two years and all these months I had good days and bad days that depending on his mood and...
  4. TAM causing problems in my marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife found TAM a while back when we were having problems. She did a lot of reading, and got some good advice, and it helped quite a bit. The problem is, spending time on TAM now seems to have taken on a life of its own, and now it is causing more harm than good. She spends far too much...
  5. Porn "The Parasitic Marriage/Sex Life Killer"

    Sex in Marriage
    Hello Everyone, I have been married twice and still have one common problem linking them both. I am married and I am still addicted to porn. I have been married to this woman since May 2014 and we've been together since May 2013. I want to quit but I keep failing at it. My...
  6. Internet Chat Addicted Wife

    Relationships and Addiction
    Here is a problem: I have been married to my wife for past 8 years but from the time our daughter was born (2010) – she has been addicted to internet chat so much so that she does not even bathe for days or cares about anything else (she was sleeping till 7pm in the evening for consecutive 3...
  7. The Aftermath Of A Porn Addicted Husband

    Relationships and Addiction
    Hello everyone, I have been a long-time stalker of TAM. My husband and I went through a major rough patch about two years ago. When I met him, he was perfect, attentive, unlike the cheating lying men before him. I knew he watched porn from the beginning, and in the beginning, it was completely...
  8. Wife smokes and I can't get over it.

    Relationships and Addiction
    I am a college track runner and my wife smokes. She smoked when I met her, she smoked through her pregnancy with my daughter, and she continues to smoke now. I was always against it and I made her aware of that. She always promised to quit, and several times told me she had quit. But I would...
  9. Sexless marriage, porn addiction, ...

    Relationships and Addiction
    Porn has been a big issue in my married life. So many fights it lead to. It is hard to live with someone who portrays to be one person, but deep inside is someone else, and off course you only get to know this with time and living together. We have been married for almost 12 years, sex was...
  10. Relationships and Addictions: Some Personal Perspectives

    Relationships and Addiction
    Henry Miller knew a great deal about relationships and addiction. I post a somewhat long thread below and I advise readers to skim or scan. If readers find an interest in what I write here keep reading and, if not, just stop and go somewhere else. Relationships and addiction have many windows...
  11. Is he still addicted to porn?

    Relationships and Addiction
    I've been with my current boyfriend for one year and recently discovered he used to be addicted to porn. I'm concerned about whether or not he still is. I found his web history on my computer (we only have 1 comp) after coming home from work a couple weeks ago-- hours of looking at TS Porn...
  12. Husband's Addiction -- Just need to get this off my chest

    Relationships and Addiction
    Sigh. This is one of those things where once you talk to a friend they never look at your husband the same. I am contemplating going to a therapist but really he won't go to couple's therapy, or any therapy for that matter, so it would be alone where someone would just ask me questions and...
  13. Should we be "Roomates"

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I need some advice. I love my husband, but we have had some serious problems. The can't seem to get the man I married back. He is an addict. Went to treatment. Things were good for a little while. He relapsed. There has been lies, manipulation, and major controlling behavior. I lost all trust...
  14. will he every stop lying?

    Relationships and Addiction
    This is going to be long so be ready. My husband and I have been married for a few months now and right after the wedding moved across the country for his job. Things just all came crashing down on me over the past week. I have no one to talk to because I don't want either of us to be judged...
  15. What is going on? Advice needed!!

    Relationships and Addiction
    Ok, everyone. I am going to try and make this as simple as possible, while adding as many details as I can. I found this website today, I wish I had done so years ago. I hope it helps someone else see the light. Here’s my story. I am 27 years old. I married at the age of 22, less than a year...
  16. Hi, New here. Possibley dealing with a Sex Addict husband?

    Relationships and Addiction
    I have been with my husband for 3 1/2 years. Married to him for 10 months. Sex life was always constant but not wow. (just thought I was a little freakier than him) My husband always looked at porn, which i knew about and didn't have a problem with. In May of this year I decided to go on our...
  17. Living With a Stranger

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I just completed our first year of marriage. Until the week of our anniversary, I thought we had a very healthy and happy relationship. That week, I discovered my husband was lying to me about smoking, was addiction to drugs, and spent money we did not have. Although he is getting...
  18. Smartphones and games

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Are smart phones and the apps/games the new addiction? - Words with Friends, Scramble, or whatever else. Do we notice it more with our wives, or do you notice it more with your husbands? More and more often, it seems that smart phone is right there with the bright light illuminating from it...
  19. Can life be brought back to something that has decayed?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    First I want to give a bit of a background which will lead to my current situation. I am not looking for sympathy, I am not looking for criticism, I criticize myself enough for this. Eight years ago I met the most amazing woman in the world. We proceeded to move in together in three months...
  20. He:Alcohol~Porn addiction~Me:cheated

    Relationships and Addiction
    It was very rocky when we first married. I already had a kid and then we had two more right away. He never helped around the house, with the kids, with the money or anything. He always had a beer in his hand. I handled it wrong and I cheated. Got caught right away. He beat the crap out of the...
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