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  1. Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have been together for 9 years and married for a year and a half. We have 4 kids (1 from his previous marriage, 2 from my previous marriage and 1 together). Our relationship had always been a rollercoaster but in 2017 he did the Love Dare and earned my trust back. We had done...
  2. General Relationship Discussions
    I'm 20. I haven't had any girl friends, including middle school and high school. Well, i'm not talking about a romantic partner. I can't even make any girl friend. I'm going to college now. And i've been addicted to porn since I was a kid. I'm trying to quit, but I'm very shy, especially with...
  3. General Relationship Discussions
    I honestly had no idea what category to put this in....Advice, support, affairs, guilt...you name it, I basically have it all covered. Sorry to say, this might be the longest post ever. I just hope people see this as an "addiction" and a cry for help, and not just bash me for my indiscretions...
  4. Reconciliation
    I broke up with a long term girlfriend 1.5 years ago. The main issue was she has what is essentially a phone addiction (which in turn is really an anxiety issue). After a LONG time telling her I couldn't play constant second fiddle to her phone (e.g. answering non-urgent texts during sex, etc)...
  5. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello Everyone, Some quick facts about me and my situation. I am currently going through my divorce(filed but not yet finalized) and have sole custody of my children (ages 7 and 4) I am having a hard time trying to balance co-parenting with their father. After we separated, about 2 years ago, he...
  6. General Relationship Discussions
    My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years. This is my third marriage, his first. He has struggled with sexual addictions long bf I came into the picture (and had no clue about until after we were married). I've tried helping him. He's tried visiting several psychologists with no...
  7. Relationships and Addiction
    Hi, all I am new here. I was the name of the site that made me post. I am Susan from British Columbia. I don't know what to do I am all in a confused situation. I am living with my boyfriend for the past two years and all these months I had good days and bad days that depending on his mood and...
  8. General Relationship Discussions
    My wife found TAM a while back when we were having problems. She did a lot of reading, and got some good advice, and it helped quite a bit. The problem is, spending time on TAM now seems to have taken on a life of its own, and now it is causing more harm than good. She spends far too much...
  9. Sex in Marriage
    Hello Everyone, I have been married twice and still have one common problem linking them both. I am married and I am still addicted to porn. I have been married to this woman since May 2014 and we've been together since May 2013. I want to quit but I keep failing at it. My...
  10. Relationships and Addiction
    Here is a problem: I have been married to my wife for past 8 years but from the time our daughter was born (2010) – she has been addicted to internet chat so much so that she does not even bathe for days or cares about anything else (she was sleeping till 7pm in the evening for consecutive 3...
  11. Relationships and Addiction
    Hello everyone, I have been a long-time stalker of TAM. My husband and I went through a major rough patch about two years ago. When I met him, he was perfect, attentive, unlike the cheating lying men before him. I knew he watched porn from the beginning, and in the beginning, it was completely...
  12. Relationships and Addiction
    I am a college track runner and my wife smokes. She smoked when I met her, she smoked through her pregnancy with my daughter, and she continues to smoke now. I was always against it and I made her aware of that. She always promised to quit, and several times told me she had quit. But I would...
  13. Relationships and Addiction
    Porn has been a big issue in my married life. So many fights it lead to. It is hard to live with someone who portrays to be one person, but deep inside is someone else, and off course you only get to know this with time and living together. We have been married for almost 12 years, sex was...
  14. Relationships and Addiction
    Henry Miller knew a great deal about relationships and addiction. I post a somewhat long thread below and I advise readers to skim or scan. If readers find an interest in what I write here keep reading and, if not, just stop and go somewhere else. Relationships and addiction have many windows...
  15. Relationships and Addiction
    I've been with my current boyfriend for one year and recently discovered he used to be addicted to porn. I'm concerned about whether or not he still is. I found his web history on my computer (we only have 1 comp) after coming home from work a couple weeks ago-- hours of looking at TS Porn...
  16. Relationships and Addiction
    Sigh. This is one of those things where once you talk to a friend they never look at your husband the same. I am contemplating going to a therapist but really he won't go to couple's therapy, or any therapy for that matter, so it would be alone where someone would just ask me questions and...
  17. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I need some advice. I love my husband, but we have had some serious problems. The can't seem to get the man I married back. He is an addict. Went to treatment. Things were good for a little while. He relapsed. There has been lies, manipulation, and major controlling behavior. I lost all trust...
  18. Relationships and Addiction
    This is going to be long so be ready. My husband and I have been married for a few months now and right after the wedding moved across the country for his job. Things just all came crashing down on me over the past week. I have no one to talk to because I don't want either of us to be judged...
  19. Relationships and Addiction
    Ok, everyone. I am going to try and make this as simple as possible, while adding as many details as I can. I found this website today, I wish I had done so years ago. I hope it helps someone else see the light. Here’s my story. I am 27 years old. I married at the age of 22, less than a year...
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