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  1. Does he really love me if...

    General Relationship Discussion
    Can anyone tell me if this is something one should take very seriously - if a husband calls his wife names and pokes at her insecurities - He has called me a fat bit%ch once. After the first time I was furious and we agreed it wouldn't happen again. However he just called me that name again...
  2. Can't trust my partner after she was abusive even though she has changed

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi ladies, I'm just looking for somewhere to say stuff I can't speak to anyone about. My partner and I have been together over 2 years and formed a civil partnership last June. We rushed in and I moved away from friends and family to move in with her. Within the first few months we had...
  3. Can't go on, but I feel like a horrid person...

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    After 23 years of marriage, the last 8 of which I've felt trapped in one of the circles of hell, I've asked my hubby to leave. He has severe chronic illnesses - however, he refused for years to take it seriously or take any responsibility for his medical self-care. He went for two years not...
  4. Very complicated story. I really need advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I'm going to try to be as short as I can. I have been married for almost 2 years now. My husband is from US and I am from Spain. Our relationship has never been easy but in the last year it has turned into impossible. Excuse my English, if I make any mistake. He is a recovering addict...
  5. Hmmmm...made up my mind but too afraid to do anything

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi there, I'm the new gal on the block. Been married 13 yrs, but living with him 17 yrs. He is 8 yrs older than me. I have 3 children, the oldest is grown, the younger two are with my husband and 11 and 12. I want out but afraid to ask for a divorice. There are soooo many reasons. Where do...
  6. Abusive relationship - need some advice

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello friends, i m reading this forum for some time and i have realised im in an abusive relationship. Thing is ,now im with my parents after a fight. I have a 2yrs old baby boy . In my culture marrage is forever . He was my friend, he was very nice before marrage. But after marrage he totaly...
  7. emotionally abusive and destructive marriage

    The Ladies' Lounge
    My husband and I were married five months ago after dating for five years. During the time that I have known him, he has always been critical. However, I thought I could deal with it.. After we got married, things got much worse. My husband began to criticize me for EVERYTHING i did. Some...
  8. Frustrated and tired........

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi everyone, I am new to this site.. I have been divorced for 6 years now and come from a marriage of 20 years. I have also come from a mentally abusive relationship. A year before I left the marriage I lost weight and was down to 37kg. I had become anorexic. My husband then didn't see that I...
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