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  1. New house sleeping in car

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I am so happy to find this community. I have had such a crazy couple years of marriage. I have had very few people to talk to and even with the few friends outside of work I have I respect them to not dump all my personal marriage problems on them. I have been to counseling for many months but...
  2. Advice Needed, Please. Silent Treatment, Extreme Gaslighting, Scary Behavior

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, Everyone. I have been a lurker for a long time and I was hoping I could get some advice and insight on my troubled marriage. I will try to post this in an unemotional way even though I’m in a very upsetting situation and I cry constantly. I have walked on eggshells for 25 years. I had...
  3. Surviving the aftermath of my abusive, co-dependent wife's affair

    Coping with Infidelity
    It is about about a month since she left to another city to be with the man she had both an emotional and physical affair. My soon-to-be ex wife cheated on me with her patient which was both unethical and illegal. We have been together for four years. We have been married for 2 years. We have no...
  4. Should we be "Roomates"

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I need some advice. I love my husband, but we have had some serious problems. The can't seem to get the man I married back. He is an addict. Went to treatment. Things were good for a little while. He relapsed. There has been lies, manipulation, and major controlling behavior. I lost all trust...
  5. anger outbursts

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi I am looking for some advice before I am forced to leave my husband for good. We have been friends for over 20 years but have only been together for 3 years. The problem is his temper. He doesnt beat me but has pushed me around pulled my hair shoved his fingers down my throat strangled...