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  1. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello everyone, I am new to this message board, and I’m reaching out for some advice. I have been married for 12 years and have two girls (9 and 7). My husband and I have had trouble throughout our marriage including: financial trouble (in which I was blamed for spending too much money), not...
  2. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    So here's my story... My husband and I have been married for about 7 years (together for almost 10). There have always been issues, but I thought we did pretty well at managing them. Full disclosure: * he has a drinking problem. He does a jekyl/hyde thing when drunk and gets really angry...
  3. Considering Divorce or Separation
    after 12 years of marriage, i just cant live like this anymore. it would be different if my husband was trying to change or even would just tell me he loved me. but he cant or wont say until i say something. for 3 days straight (3 day drinking binge where he didnt come home), i kept texting him...
  4. Coping with Infidelity
    It's been nearly 3 weeks now since he walked out of our nine and 1/2 year relationship to move in with the OW. He'd known her, and had been carrying on with her, for 2 months. The week, I began to suspect, I did what many of us do - looked through the emails, phone calls, bank accounts. I went...
  5. General Relationship Discussion
    I've been married to my wife for 13 years. We married very young; we used to be a very tight couple and spent a lot of time together and as young adults/teenagers that we were our hormones usually got the best of us until one day we got pregnant. She dropped out of high school as I started...
  6. Coping with Infidelity
    I'm trying to understand the thinking of women who walk out on their families, choosing to be FULL time with some AP and PART TIME with their children. Like my STBXW. Women have every right to leave a husband who is cheating, a drug addict, abusive, alcoholic, or guilty of willful nonsupport...
  7. Dealing with Grief and Loss
    New to the forum. Recently divorced, she moved away. It seems that she's dead. No contact with her at all. I'm at the point of rage, I berate people that have no idea what the hell I'm going through. I dream about her. I listen to stupid idiotic songs that remind me of her. I'm torturing myself...
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