My story probably starts like a lot of others. The signs have been there for a long time but I chose to ignore them because I'm confrontation averse and was in denial. But, I'm now sure my wife and my best friend have been having a secret relationship - no evidence (yet) of anything physical -...

Hi all about 6 Weeks back I got the ILYBINILWY from my wife. I was shocked floored. We have been together for 16 years no kids. For the last three weeks I tried to make myself better, More appealing, did nice stuff. It didn’t really change my wife’s perspective or feelings at all. She claimed...

I have a weird feeling something isn't right, but maybe it is nothing. Wife and I have been married close to 20 years. We have 3 kids and we both have successful careers. Our marriage is good, no real problems other than the regular issues in life we all face. Sometimes I do forget to take out...

So...Been married 6 years, dated for 2 prior. I'm 34, my wife is 36. She travels for work, and the times vary from month to month based on her contracts. She started traveling about 4 years ago, and it's always been 5-7 day stints, maybe once a month. The last year or so the lengths have...

Hi all I've been lurking here for a while, i have recently started questioning my marriage (17yrs) It seemed like my wife would deliberately pick fights with me, constantly on her phone till late at night. I can almost pinpoint the exact date this started, yes I know red flags. There are more...